why do i feel this?

why do i feel that my roommate is secretly texting m boyfriend? Our's is a long distance relationship, but every time he comes to visits me, we spend time in my apartment, my roommate is always there butting in and speaking him to him, she flirts with him, and the worst part is i feel that he reciprocates and he enjoys it!

there was one time when we didn't speak for a month because he was "always busy with work". During when my roommate had texted him to call her coz she had a doubt in a class project, and he readily did call her, they spoke for 8 minutes! My roommate told me about this anyways. When i called him a week later to speak we spoke normally but he never mentioned that he spoke to her. I have seen him checking out girls in front of me, but thats normal for any guy!

He never calls/ texts me because he says he busy with work! He did not even come to my graduation, he was also not ready to visit me for our anniversary, i didn't say anything. Assuming that i would be hurt he came to visit me that day.

We hardly speak or disagree about anything, mostly its physical. Sometimes i feel like he just wants sex. I think he's not interested in me anymore, and my roommate can sense that!

Should i breakup with him? i can't take this anymore! i have a career to think about too!

I dont think this guy is all that into you. You seem more invested in the relationship than he is. Do you really want to continue on like this?

Time to ditch both the bf and the roommate. Any person with an ounce of self-worth would.

I would just pull back and let BF show you whether he'll step up or not--and when.

I'd also stop discussing him (or much else) with roommate until you can find another rooming situation.

Yes dump him. He seems like a headache you don't need right now.

Our's is a long distance relationship, We hardly speak or disagree about anything, mostly its physical. Sometimes i feel like he just wants sex. Should i breakup with him?