katie94 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 ..just seeing a woman you find attractive (if so, does it have to be skimpy clothing/underwear? Kissing? Actual stimulation (hand job)? Link to comment
Wolfshook Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 Depends on the day, sometimes just the look will do (sometimes only mi toughts are needed),and sometimes it takes a bit of a work (getting naked is usually enough). Link to comment
j.man Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 Every man is different, so I hesitate to offer advice meant for you to use for your man. Personally, if I come home to pizza on a plate and Gentleman Jack in a glass, we gettin' it on that night. I'm not into sexy lingerie or things like that. I find it cheesy, and if I wanted cheesy, I'd watch porn. Link to comment
JamesT2 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 Foreplay, cuddling are essential. Kissing too of course to get me started. Do you want more graphic details? My sex drive is quite alright and during an intercourse regardless of the lady I'm with I'll try to satisfy her as much as possible and vice versa. There are guys who think otherwise I'm not. If the woman I'm with enjoy the sex it couldn't makes me happier. That's how I roll anyway, and good chemistry too. Link to comment
katie94 Posted April 24, 2016 Author Share Posted April 24, 2016 Every man is different, so I hesitate to offer advice meant for you to use for your man. Personally, if I come home to pizza on a plate and Gentleman Jack in a glass, we gettin' it on that night. I'm not into sexy lingerie or things like that. I find it cheesy, and if I wanted cheesy, I'd watch porn. I don't have a man at the moment....I was just curious about how it is for guys in general! Thanks for replying. Link to comment
lukeb Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 ... and good chemistry too. He sort of tagged this on the end, and it is this very often the most ignored. Often we think objective beauty would be the thing. There is a lot of research to suggest this isn't true. On a lot of online dating sites where they ask which you find attractive it is actually the women placing a far higher emphasis on physical beauty where it is women that would put the top 15% of men into above average and 85% into below. Men tend to be far more forgiving on physical traits and the results are far closer to 50% to be below average and 50 % to be above. Now I don't think men are like this objective judging of women when they are among other men. In any case there is a good reason to believe there is an evolutionary reason to think men and women are like this. There is an evolutionary advantage for women to pick the cream of the crop, and an evolutionary advantage for men to be interested in all women generally. I think the greatest factor in attraction for men is simply non-rejection, and acceptance and a general interest in them. There isn't usually anything specific that arouses them although there are general tastes, mostly though it is about variety. Link to comment
adviceplease2 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 For me....having a woman thats into me as much as I am to her. Ive learned the hard way that casual sex is not for me. Being in a relationship...being in love with the woman and her with me....makes everything for me. At that point....all it takes is a look or a small touch or just a text or some words being said. If she wants to wear something that makes her feel sexy thats fine but not needed. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 Please note that the sex and romance forum is for topics that are directly related to and contain a relationship question. Any threads which are not related to a specific relationship question, will be removed. Thread closed. Link to comment
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