Michael thomas Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 Hi I have a akward situation my gfs old mate is a compulsive liar (what my gf tells me though) my gf talks and hangs out with her friends bf anyway her old friend messaged me yesterday saying that my gf message her bf naked photos about 4 months ago iv asked my gf and she denies everything that she is saying but in the back of my mind I don't know who to believe, my gf used to always make the first move in bed but in the last 6-7 months iv had to make the move, we used to have sex about 5-6 times a week now it's about once a week, iv been cheated on quite a few times so it might be me being parinoid since her old friend messaged me this, she has always not liked my gf since she been hanging out with her bf, I'm very trustworthy person and I don't accuse people of cheating just because she has a male friend, please I need some advice to what to do as this is making me feel like I'm crazy Link to comment
SpottiOtti Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 Four months ago and she's just now telling you? Why is that? Can you ask her to send you screenshots of what she found? Are there any other indications that your GF's friendship with the guy might be inappropriate? Link to comment
Michael thomas Posted September 29, 2015 Author Share Posted September 29, 2015 Apparently she see them on her bf phone and only just telling me now because they broke up *edit* she said she can't prove it as its on his phone Link to comment
chloex Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 just ask this person who is accusing your girlfriend for proof of the photos. if they come up with none then they are obviously lying. end of. Link to comment
Michael thomas Posted September 29, 2015 Author Share Posted September 29, 2015 This was the last thing I said to the person accusing this (Please don't message me until u have proof I not Guna go accusing her of doing this until I know it's true) but still doesn't help the thoughts in my head if they are true or not as said before I have been cheated on quite a few times and a lot of what my gf is doing has tell tale signs of what happened before (not the same situation though) *edit* is there any signs I should look out for that my gf might be lying and has sent these photos and cheating on me? Link to comment
Michael thomas Posted September 30, 2015 Author Share Posted September 30, 2015 First time using this site so not sure if I had to click the reply button Link to comment
mhowe Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 You might try punctuation if you want more replies. Link to comment
chloex Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 from what you've told me theres no sign that she has cheated on you, you said yourself you have trust issues work on controlling it and focusing on yourself as opposed to your girlfriend who has most likely not done anything wrong Link to comment
Unreasonable Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 If you know this girl is a compulsive liar, and she has no proof, I would trust your GF over her. Your diminished sex life may not (and probably doesn't) have anything to do with this. Link to comment
Michael thomas Posted October 2, 2015 Author Share Posted October 2, 2015 Just as my mind was easing, I found out with proof she was sending pictures not only that she was sleeping with him too Link to comment
Michael thomas Posted October 2, 2015 Author Share Posted October 2, 2015 True what they say trust ur gut feeling....I'm heart broken Link to comment
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