My girlfriend makes no sense

I'm going to a bachelor party today, I mentioned to my friend yesterday that I felt a little guilty going to the party and leaving my girlfriend home by herself. He really kindly said she could come. Well I told my girlfriend, and she got angry that I didn't sound as excited as she would be if the roles were reversed..... Of course it's a bachelor party so I'm not going to be as enthused, because for my friend it's his night and should be with his friends. She got sad, later last night she was asking when I would come home. I said I didn't know what would happen. Next thing I know she's crying because I didn't tell her "I don't know but I'll come home to you" she said it showed her I don't care I tell my girlfriend I love her, I'm with her everyday, we don't spend time apart. It's my best friends bachelor partie and she's upset of a truth she completely made up. Any opinions because this is bothering me

It's a bachelor party.

She has it in her head that all kinds of debauchery is going to take place. So when you weren't excited about her going she took that to mean you were disappointed that she'd keep you from fooling around with other girls or whatever.

She just wanted some reassurance that you want to be with her and wouldn't cheat on her.

Having an expectation that you'd say an exact, certain thing is a foolish way to set herself up for disappointment though.

She's an insecure nut case. Why the hell did you decide to take her to a bachelor party? I'm assuming it's a party for a guy that's getting married? Stop pandering to her moods and tell her to get a life and some friends. The more you put up,with her pouty behaviour, the more she'll do it.

Make sure she knows you will not do anything that she wouldn't approve of but there also needs to be trust in your relationship if it is to become stronger and stronger.

Tell her that you love her and she is the one for you and you would never do anything to mess that up.

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Girls don't belong at bachelor parties unless they're part of the action.

Can you say "high maintenance?"

Girls don't belong at bachelor parties unless they're part of the action.

Totally agree. Your girl should get into it (crowd action I mean). She should chill and have fun.

You probably shouldn't have told her she was invited at all if you didnt want her to come. A few simple texts while your out would be enough to reassure her that your still thinking about her.

How have you dealt with this for so long?

Why in the world do you spend so much time together? Don't you two have friends or any outside interests? If not, you're in a very unhealthy relationship!

Does she not have any friends of her own to go out with?

people should refer to OPs old threads..idk if his gfs insecurity issues are ever going to change