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Thread: Guy Is Going to Vegas for Bachelor Party

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    Originally Posted by pray925
    Actually, my exact words to him were, "on a scale from "awesome" to "awesome" how was it? Haha"
    You are right to just wait for him to respond now. I agree that you may never hear any additional details. Then what will you do?

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    Don't bring it up. It isn't any of your concern. If he wants to share, he will.

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    I will not push for details. I had a small revelation yesterday that it does not matter what he does while away. What does matter is that I do sort of regret the question because now I feel I look needy, when in actually I just was curious if he had a good time - no looking for dirt. Have I shot myself in the foot?

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    It would be odd not to ask how his weekend was....just drop it now.

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    Originally Posted by PaintWithLight
    Then I misunderstood your comment. It read like you wanted more details.
    I understand. I wrote it wrong. What I should have said was, "don't want to push for more conversation (about anything)."

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    Originally Posted by PaintWithLight
    You are right to just wait for him to respond now. I agree that you may never hear any additional details. Then what will you do?
    I have no problem if he doesn't want to tell me what he did. I'm honestly just curious if he enjoyed himself - that's it. I don't need details.

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    Why wouldn't he enjoy himself?

    Any further questions are completely unnecessary. If he feels like sharing, he will.

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    I agree with MHowe. Just wait for now.

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    Originally Posted by PaintWithLight
    Wow. Yes, leave it be. Are you seriously expecting to immediately de-brief with you? You seem pretty full on for someone who hasn't even agreed to be exclusive with you yet.

    What is the rush for details? Are you hoping that he will reassure you that he did nothing "wrong"? Your reactions around his trip seem full of insecurities way beyond the boundaries of such a new dating relationship. Just what is the reall issue for you here?
    As conservative as I may be sometimes, if you guys aren't exclusive, he can go to Vegas and have an orgy with a bunch of strippers and not be beyond the "rules". But he could do that anywhere. So perhaps the issue is that you want exclusivity.

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    [QUOTE=Ms Darcy;6310911]As conservative as I may be sometimes, if you guys aren't exclusive, he can go to Vegas and have an orgy with a bunch of strippers and not be beyond the "rules". But he could do that anywhere. So perhaps the issue is that you want exclusivity.[/QUOTE

    I understand that. And I've accepted it. I would like exclusively, yes.
    I tend to make mountains out of molehills. Small things become HUGE deals. Which is what I'm dealing with now. My simple question has turned into a "did I look so needy he'll assume I'm desperate and stop seeing me." When it was only a stupid question.

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