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    Oh, and he isn't very health-conscious. Blegh

    Oh, my ex left a drunken voicemail last night. Yippee

    Oh, and my ex from 2 or 3years keeps texting me, smh. I do not know what I saw in him but Yikess I am so glad I've matured

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    Tonight I am going to a lounge with a guy that I met about a month ago on OKC as well. At that time I had "friends only" option. I am not attracted to him but he could be a cool friend. We've hung out like 3 times. Usually when I'm not attracted to a guy it greatly lowers the amount of fun I have with him. Hopefully he's entertaining tonight!

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    Soo.... Red wants to get serious ..... Idk about that just yet

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    You haven't yet met Red, right? Keeps rescheduling or something?

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    Blue is the one who keeps rescheduling, Red is the one I've had the most contact with

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    Have you met red yet though? Like, in person?


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    I don't understand waiting weeks to meet someone.

    Usually I would comb through a guys profile, if he had red flags (drugs, didn't like kids, mentioned that he had 5 pets, talked about going to bars a lot) I would disregard them. From that point, an email or two back and forth...if they mentioned a red flag, I would, disappear. Set up a date for asap. Meet. 90% of the time, I wasn't attracted to them, so I would move on to the next guy. The whole process took 3-6 days...and I would have multiple people going at once, so I was meeting 2-6 new men every week.

    Why are you taking so long to meet them?


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    Yea Red and I have met. 1st time was at the bookstore then we had dinner. Then we hung out like 4 - 5 times since then, including yesterday. And he's taking me out today.

    Its the other guys that I haven't met yet.

    And also I'm hesitant to meet guys so fast because I still get nervous and anxious lol .

    So although the others are clearly blowing smoke up my butt, it works out favorably for me because then I skip out on the anxiety.

    Also my schedule is pretty full already

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    Do you know what will make you less anxious? Not investing as much.

    Like when I met guys, I would have so many on the go that I had to put their picture in my phone with their phone number (and their occupation and hobbies) so that I could review it right before I went in to meet them. I just didn't care. Unless there was a "click" I didn't give it any thought.

    What also helps with the anxiety is....practise. The first few dates I went on, I was so nervous I threw up before hand...but after about 10 first meets...I realized meeting my dream guy was going to take a while, so I should try to just look at it as a pleasant evening with someone new. *shrugs* that helped me a lot...don't know if it will you. But practise does make us better

    Good luck


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    Yes but I'm only attracted to very little guys now so its impossible (numbers-wise) for me to have so many in rotation haha ..

    Also it doesn't bother me that these guys are so slow with meeting up

    Soo update :

    Red and I went out last night & he suggested something for this weekend.

    And I deleted my account on OKC.

    I estimate that my success rate is like 1/60 .... So of 60 men that I spoke with and went on 1-3 dates with, only 1 made it.

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