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Thread: Why is my Scorpio boyfriend so confusing?

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    Originally Posted by kara92297
    So true. I just figured mentioning his sign would help u all understand his personality better. Just Google Scorpio sting and u'll see that so many people complain about it. I'm not gonna make any excuses for him anymore, however.
    OP, the so-called scorpio sting is NOT about abuse!! It's about anger, which is a normal human emotion. You can feel anger and not abuse your partner.

    My boyfriend is a scorpio. He is neither verbally nor physically abusive to me. He won't steal my stuff when he's mad or give me the silent treatment for days. Nor will he call me terrible names. What he does when he's mad is tell me if I hurt his feelings. That is all.

    Everyone feels anger. How you express it, can be in healthy or unhealthy ways. Taking out your anger on another person is unhealthy. Blaming others for making you mad and/or "causing" you to lash out at them is unhealthy BS. Don't fall for it.

    Get out of this toxic relationship. And consider what's best for the child, whether that is adoption or not going forward with the pregnancy.

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    Astrology is pretty much BS.

    He sounds like an abusive piece of work. Do you really think it will get better? If I were you I would demand my computer back and then drop his ass like a hot rock.

    I am a Scorpio. I don't act this way. My ex husband soinds a lot like your boyfriend... and he was a Libra. (Supposedly the "most desirable" sign of the zodiac.)
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    Please.

    I actually do astrology. The entire chart and everything. Do I really believe in it? Nah. I think it's just psychology. What you pick out and hold so rigidly to is your way of believing these aspects as they are applicable while you ignore the rest that don't fit.

    I'm also a Scorpio Sun. I don't abuse.

    Leave him.

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    Guess what? If you google "Virgo man abusive" you get tons of hits about Virgo men being horrible to be in a relationship with.

    When doing internet searches, you will often find exactly the answer you wanted, because you wanted that answer.

    Leave him. You're actually afraid he will kill you.

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    First off as a Scorpio I am actually insulted that I am being painted as abusive because your partner can't control himself

    Secondly, there are what...12 signs of the Zodiac? and 7 billion people in the world....are you trying to tell me that there are only 12 different types of people out there?

    Thirdly, forget my advice in your last thread. Leave this guy now before he hurts your physically.

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    I found a shelter that accepts pregnant women and helps them find work, school, etc. I'm seriously thinking about taking that route. I never thought I'd have to resort to a shelter because I have "pride" but looks like my only choice because I dont know anyone here and he wants to kill me every other week.
    YES! yes, yes, yes. Grab your stuff and go now. Have them tell you how to keep him away and stay safe, just do it. You won't regret it and you and your baby will live to see a new, better life.

    BTW I worked with two Scorpios at a women's shelter for 16 years helping people in your situation. They were great people who were not abusive in any way, shape or form. The abuse, that's totally all on whatever your BF's issues are. It has nothing to do with his star sign. One of the worst abusers I ever met was a Cancer, supposedly one of the most caring and domestic of star signs--hah! Not.

    So toss all that idea into the trash and just realize abuse is abuse is abuse. It doesn't matter when, where or how (okay, maybe how) a person is born that really shapes how they treat others. I know it's safe and comforting to ascribe such things as astrology to human behavior, but as you live life I think you're going to find that for every person who holds true to something like that there will be a million others who don't and won't.

    I believe it's a combination of many things that make up a person and batguano crazy is just batguano crazy no matter what the reason. And yes, his threats of wanting to kill you and your unborn child along with all of his other abusive behaviors say exactly that. He could be a freaking Cancer or some other loving passive star sign and it still wouldn't make him any less abusive than what he is.

    Now pack your bags while he's not there and get to that shelter pronto. Disappear and get them to help you put together a new life. You and your baby will never be sorry about that.

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    My husband is a scorpio and he is nothing but kind gentle and respectful. I'm a scorpio. My dads a scorpio and none of us are abusive or unkind and my dad has never had a bad word to say to my mum.

    Please get help and get away from this situation.

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    The fact that he's a scorpio has nothing to do with it. My ex husband was a scorpio. Yes, he was too dramatic (for me). He was sensitive, jealous, possessive, almost everything you read about scorpios in astrology books...BUT he was never abusive, never rude and never disrespectful.

    Just leave this jerk and do it fast.

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    Originally Posted by kara92297
    I'm just hurting....and I love him very much. We haven't patched things up yet. Posting my questions here actually helps me not to text or call him.
    How do you love someone who treats you so atrociously? If my boyfriend ever said such things to me, any feelings of love or anything else I felt for him would be gone, IMMEDIATELY. And I would walk out, forever. I wouldnít care if I had to sleep on the freakin street, I would NEVER EVER tolerate be spoken to that way, no matter how much I "thought" I loved him.

    Thatís not love sweetie. Thatís verbal abuse, and it will only get worse.

    Please have some self-respect and do not tolerate that! How do you expect him to respect you if you donít respect yourself?

    He sounds horrible!!!

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    I am going through the same thing exact same temper tantrums. I did manage to move out as he kicked me out of the house, i foolishly went back to him but only thing this time, i did not leave my apartment im in and will not, because i wanted to make sure he could change. He slightly did, but i am afraid that we are just being manipulated by crying to us etc.. making false promises, at the end of the day it did not take long for him to again show true colors - im now officially done with his BS;
    It happens my man is Scorpio - i dont know any other but let me tell you - no matter the horoscope - the only sign you need is the abusiveness to get the hell out

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