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    Zodiac signs have nothing to do with who you actually are as a person. You are who you are because that's who you want to be. You're boyfriend is a bully, period. He gets off on belittling you and feeling like he has the control by going through your things, telling you to leave, taking your stuff and calling you names. The reason he feels this control is because you don't do anything about it, garantee you don't confront him at all and you just avoid everything and guess what he knows it.

    You are his doormatt and I suggest you make it stop. If there is a unborn child involved in this, you need to start putting your childs best interests first right now and leave. If he is like this with you over probably stupid petty things -- imagine what lack of sleep and a crying baby will do? Seriously, save yourself and your child and leave him before something absoutely horrible happens.

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    It's simple, this is not about him being a Scorpio. It's about him being an emotional abuser. Buy the book "Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men" by Lundy Bancroft and learn all about what you're dealing with.

    And report your Macbook stolen to the cops, so they can get him for theft. Better yet, while he's gone get your stuff and get out and get gone. Staying and trying to appease him is just going to make him angrier, because he needs you to give him reasons to abuse you--that's his addiction. Do you really want to sign up for that or worse when verbally abusing you is no longer enough of a "fix" for him? And he steps it up to physical.

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    "he leaves for a couple days..only to come back while I'm not there to go through my stuff , rearranging my papers and clothes, then he takes my macbook with him and leaves! He knows that my WHOLE Life is inside of that macbook! I have not confronted him about this because I want to avoid any additional confrontation."
    - No no.. this disresctful idiot has NO right to YOUR personal stuff/items.
    Is your dad or brother etc around? Get them to help you get that back.. now!

    Then tell him off.. where to go and get out of his life.

    "NOTE: I mentioned he's a Scorpio because I was reading countless blogs that scorpio men are the most misunderstood, most complex sign of the zodiac."
    - Misunderstood? How much understanding can I go re: a lying, cheater? lol
    I also read that they are most secretive yet loving in the bedroom- who cares? We are ALL different and challenging no matter our sign!

    Leave that out of it.

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    Let's assume for minuet that astrology is true (it's not). So what? He is still abusive to you. Get out ASAP.


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    Originally Posted by BritterSweet
    Horoscopes and Zodiac connections to personality are not to be taken seriously.

    Don't be fooled by his sweet act. That's the bait he uses to manipulate you.

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    It doesn't matter how "misunderstood" he may be. You don't deserve to be punished for his issues.
    I agree with u completely. It just seems as though scorpios can't help how they treat their loved ones. The people who are closest to them are the ones who suffer. Als, from the countless-endless blogs I've read online it seems as though scorpio men are known for beating up their partners with harsh hateful words , even when they don't mean it. I'm not making excuses for him at all....but it must be true since there are so many blogs and websites dedicated to "understanding the scorpio", or "how to survive the scorpio sting". Interesting but true...

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    So true. I just figured mentioning his sign would help u all understand his personality better. Just Google Scorpio sting and u'll see that so many people complain about it. I'm not gonna make any excuses for him anymore, however.

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    Originally Posted by kara92297
    I agree with u completely. It just seems as though scorpios can't help how they treat their loved ones. The people who are closest to them are the ones who suffer. Als, from the countless-endless blogs I've read online it seems as though scorpio men are known for beating up their partners with harsh hateful words , even when they don't mean it. I'm not making excuses for him at all....but it must be true since there are so many blogs and websites dedicated to "understanding the scorpio", or "how to survive the scorpio sting". Interesting but true...
    Ok, that is insulting BS . Really it is. Nothing your boyfriend is doing is because he's a Scorpio. He's just a regular old abusive person. Using a zodiac sign is something that you're doing to deny that you are in an abusive relationship. No zodiac sign has a license on abuse okay? And to suggest that it does is just ridiculous.

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    Originally Posted by ParisPaulette
    It's simple, this is not about him being a Scorpio. It's about him being an emotional abuser. Buy the book "Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men" by Lundy Bancroft and learn all about what you're dealing with.

    And report your Macbook stolen to the cops, so they can get him for theft. Better yet, while he's gone get your stuff and get out and get gone. Staying and trying to appease him is just going to make him angrier, because he needs you to give him reasons to abuse you--that's his addiction. Do you really want to sign up for that or worse when verbally abusing you is no longer enough of a "fix" for him? And he steps it up to physical.
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    Originally Posted by kara92297
    So true. I just figured mentioning his sign would help u all understand his personality better. Just Google Scorpio sting and u'll see that so many people complain about it. I'm not gonna make any excuses for him anymore, however.
    Just because it's on the Internet doesn't mean it's true you know.

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    I found a shelter that accepts pregnant women and helps them find work, school, etc. I'm seriously thinking about taking that route. I never thought I'd have to resort to a shelter because I have "pride" but looks like my only choice because I dont know anyone here and he wants to kill me every other week.

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