What is the best way to get a bullheaded, man to atleast listen to your point of view. My bf is the most unreasonable man in the world. Instead of confronting issues he runs away from them disappears for weeks. Hoping that I would chase him n beg him to return. Which I have done in the past. This time again he said he couldn't do a thing for me. When I tried to talk he chose to run again. I haven't chased him yet. Its been 12 days. Im tired, emotionally wrecked and alone. What can u do to such men to bring them to their senses. The most we broke off for was two months after which he ensured he rode the same flight with me to uk and ultimately I spoke with him. Im tired of his bull headedness n tired of pampering his ego. Pl tell me how do u handle such people n what do u do. Ladies ever dealt with such men? Gentlemen what s the psyche of such men? Pl share.