Ask For Advice
Page 1 of 3 123 LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 23

Thread: do married men love their mistress

  1. #1
    SeaBisquit
    Member SeaBisquit's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2005
    Age
    36
    Posts
    1,116
    Thanked
    2

    do married men love their mistress

    I'm just wondering do they love the other women or is it just for sex? My brother is having a affair on his wife and i hope he doesn't leave or divorce her.

  2. #2
    FrenchFries
    Platinum Member FrenchFries's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2010
    Posts
    1,273
    Gender
    Female
    Some probably do while for others it is all about sex. How close are you to your brother? Have you talked to him about it?

  3. #3
    happyfrank
    Platinum Member happyfrank's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2007
    Location
    Burbank, CA
    Age
    35
    Posts
    2,201
    Gender
    Male
    Thanked
    318
    Just using her for sex. I hope he doesn't leave or divorce her. Don't worry about it. His wife will divorce him. She doesn't deserve to be treated this way. You're brother is being selfish.

  4. #4
    SapphireNoir10
    Bronze Member SapphireNoir10's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    Posts
    12,018
    Gender
    Female
    Thanked
    169
    It depends. Some men have an affair because they have fallen out of love with their wives and are moving on into the next relationship before ending the current one.

    Some people have affairs because sex is lacking or they aren't happy etc etc and find a mistress to try and fulfill the parts of their relationship they feel are missing.

    Some people just like to have their cake and eat it too!

    No one could know without speaking to him to find out whether his mistress is just a bit on the side or someone he loves deeply.

  5. #5
    22n32
    Gold Member 22n32's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2010
    Posts
    2,158
    Thanked
    5
    Usally no.. they just love the sex...

  6. #6
    SeaBisquit
    Member SeaBisquit's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2005
    Age
    36
    Posts
    1,116
    Thanked
    2
    I found out he has been seeing his mistress for three yrs. i caught them together. i asked him about her he said its not my business and he loves his kids.

  7. #7
    termus123
    Gold Member
    Join Date
    Mar 2012
    Location
    New Zealand
    Posts
    807
    Gender
    Male
    Thanked
    10
    They love their mistress.

  8. #8
    SapphireNoir10
    Bronze Member SapphireNoir10's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    Posts
    12,018
    Gender
    Female
    Thanked
    169
    If they've been together 3 years it may be he does love her but doesn't want to leave his wife and potentially lose his kids.

  9. #9
    blacklantana
    Silver Member
    Join Date
    Feb 2011
    Posts
    653
    Thanked
    2
    Quote Originally Posted by SeaBisquit [Register to see the link]
    I found out he has been seeing his mistress for three yrs. i caught them together. i asked him about her he said its not my business and he loves his kids.
    Lol, "it's not your business".... What an a**hole. I know he's your brother and all, but that behavior is inexcusable. If he loves his kids, he will respect his wife and their boundaries. He would consider how he is going to make his kids feel once they see mommy is crying and is hurt, and why daddy left. He would also consider the fact that his kids are going to find out eventually. You can't hide that kind of crap forever... Eventually it will come out.

    If I were you, I'd give him an ultimatum. You either tell your wife, or I do. That's some messed up stuff...

  10. #10
    happyfrank
    Platinum Member happyfrank's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2007
    Location
    Burbank, CA
    Age
    35
    Posts
    2,201
    Gender
    Male
    Thanked
    318
    My ex's father was having an affair with another woman for years. When wife found out. She ended her life. This can very much end this way. Tell him how he would feel if she did that and how the kids would be mentally. It can be very much be your business because you will need to heal broken hearts.

  11.  

Page 1 of 3 123 LastLast
Top Threads
Married friend almost having affair plz read
Hey my friend and I have known each other for a long time. We dated in high school but then I went on to date other people and he got married we hung
OMG he has a wedding date.
All, A couple of years ago, I dated a guy. There were things that were amazing but also horrible. A little over a year ago, we reconnected. He
Relationship with ex who is engaged
Hi All, A couple of years ago I dated a guy for 5 months. (It was an intense 5 months and we were very close.) We have similar jobs and we got a
Married man and woman interaction: platonic or more?
A married man and woman don't work together but know each other through a youth sports organization. Both have kids. At first they email each other
Baby daddy vs forever friend
Please, I need an unbiased opinion. I'm stuck. A friend I've had for 20 years (grew up together, not so close now) has recently decided to inform my
Abuse-infidelity-passion-drug abuse-hackers/anonymous -*for you*-
The past few weeks I've been falling asleep to long quiet arctic monkeys albums playing off my computer which takes me back to a very vulnerable
Featured Threads
Has anyone on here used face time after meeting someone online?
Met this lady on Craigslist and when I suggested we exchange numbers so we can set up a meeting she preferred face time. I have no interest in face
Does a cheater get a second chance..?
I posted earlier but everybody's just looking at all the negative stuff which I understand but my question is if you find out your significant other
Encouragement and Advice Needed Please
Hi, When I was younger I was very ambitious and optimistic about the future, I believed I could turn things around for myself and create a
Friends..!
Can exes remain friends?
Heard something pretty rude while dining out tonight
So I'm sitting at Paneras when a man and woman sit next to me. The man announces to the woman that as of today, he's lost 35 pounds in 10 weeks from
Too many weddings and babies and I m nowhere
Hi everyone I don't even know how to start but I m feeling depressed. I m in my mid 30's and never had a kid or got married. I had few serious
Is this cheating??
My ex and I got together for closure a few weeks after our break up. We talked and said how much we loved eachother and it was very emotional
Ask For Advice

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •