So I just started dating a 30 year-old virgin and for some reason, it's bothering me. I've mostly been celibate the last year, other than one month-long relationship, but the virgin ship sailed for me a LONG time ago. I've also got a little bit of a promiscuous past. My number is greater than ten, and I guess I feel like that's not comparable to what he needs. I also feel like he's partly dating me because he just wants to lose it and get it over with. He brought the whole virgin thing up, and made a point to tell me he was interested in sex. And when he flirts with me now he makes a lot of suggestive comments. Another problem is, when I have sex now I want it to MEAN something. I want to have established a caring relationship that has a future. I've done the casual sex thing and I'm over it. We just started dating and I really would prefer for him to be trying to get to know me, instead of giving me a play-by-play of what he's having for dinner and then asking me what I sleep in.
Opinions on the situation? Am I asking too much here? Does it sound like we're even compatible?