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    Is he my boyfriend or are we just dating?

    I have been seeing this guy for almost 2 months. We text back and forth every day. For the past couple of weeks, I have seen him every day. Last weekend, we got together Friday evening and I didn't go back home unil Sunday afternoon. We almost slept together, but he got nervous since we are both virgins. I asked him if he was seeing anyone else, and he said "No, why would I need to when I have you?" I'm 25 and he's 27. Does it sound like he's my boyfriend? I just don't know what to say when my friends and family ask me if he's my boyfriend. My last relationship started in highschool so I don't have dating experience as an adult. Thanks for any advice!

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    I think it does lol he just needs to get the guts to make it official and ask you... or for you to ask him what you are.

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    His answer sounds pretty exclusive to me. I think at this point there'd be nothing wrong with asking him for clarity.

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    You guys are exclusively dating. Some people don't call eachother "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" for a little while. Does it matter to you? After all, its only been 4 weeks!

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    If friends ask "I have been seeing a nice guy for a couple weeks now." don't rush things just to give them an asnwer. That's all they need to know.

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    Why dont you just ask him?

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    Sounds like he wants to be your boyfriend.

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    I think it's mutual understanding.

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    I think the only time you have place labels is when you're introducing someone.

    But to clarify, 2 months is a decent amount of time, and he's obviously not seeing anyone else.

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    I have learnt that men think differently to women when it comes to status' . Ask him and dont assume, i assumed for 4 months and it turned out he saw me as a casual date and didnt invest any feelings into me. I have learnt from the past to ask. Just ask him what he wants to happen out of 'us' and ask him if ur both on the same page. 2 months is a good time to do it.

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