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Thread: Can't get Penis into my Girlfriends Vagina

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    Whatever information has in this post seems not enough to advice anything. If you are trying since May 2012, I feel it is a very long period. How could you control yourself without penetration? I think, two are essential requirement for penetration – first, hardness in your penis and second, enough passage in the vagina of your girlfriend which can accommodate your penis whatever may be its size. You should start finding the solution on these lines. If you are not much familiar with female anatomy than your girlfriend may guide you. Some time if vagina is very tight, even though little pressure with lube is enough to penetrate. Do not use condom for time being. I could not find any reason for this if everything looks normal and if everything is normal than it is not complex like rocket since. Have some patient,go for enough foreplay and after enough arousal,try for this.

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    we've disscussed Pills but never got around to actually getting them. We tried a few different angles but it never seems to go in. She says that on one ocasdion it went half way in, but I didn't feel this at all so I dont think it did.

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    If you read what I had said you would find that we have tried in eveeything you have said. i find your reply a little patronising to be frank.

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    Relax and take your time... The moment you start trying to force it to happen the less likly you will make it happen. Stop thinking about the actual act and more on how hot and sexy she is. More foreplay also make sure she's wetwetwet. I have actually never had sex with a virgin haha.. But if its too tight use lube(not too much a dime size) use your tongue or fingers to loosen her up. And as bad as it sounds sometimes you just need to force it in hahah but carefully and a bit at a time. A bit of alchohol will help with nerves but too much and whiskey **** hahaha have fun and remember ^^ nice guys finish last

    Oh and about the hardness part. Im going to assume you are young and fit and have blood pumping strong. It's all nerves and it gets worse the more you try and fail. Have her give you a hj while you kiss her and when you are the hardest move your hip and try to get it in. You may have to be quick about it. The most important part is to not force it to happen. Just let it happen naturally. Lay and cuddle naked in bed as long as you guys need to to make it happen
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    I think your girlfriend should go to a doctor. It's highly likely that her hymen is still intact. Sometimes, some women need a bit of help with this by having the hymen removed surgically which is a simple procedure and done in a doctors surgery

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    It might also be anxiety from having tried and failed the first time. If you don't want to try alcohol then you perhaps could come up with some other way to relax. How often are you trying? If everything is regular then she may be clenching at the last minute. Does she seem anxious? It might be helpful to talk through it and get her to relax. after the first time it gets easier.

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    Since you say the lube makes you slip around and you can't get in, that makes me think you're not hard enough. That's not a problem though! Don't stress about this. Chances are, you tried once, it didn't work, and now you're psyching yourself out and your emotions are messing with your body.

    Relax. Realize that if it doesn't work this time, you can always try again. That's the great thing about sex - you can do it as many times as you want!

    Have you tried drinking beforehand? Sometimes, this can make guys lose their erections. But other times, it helps them get harder erections (though it may be more difficult to get off in the end). Drinking a bit might put your mind at ease.

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    You should be able to easily get two fingers into her all the way. Practice this until you can do it. Use lube if needed. Eventually you won't need the lube. Once you reach that stage, you should be able to have sex. If you can't reach that stage, then keep practicing.

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    Originally Posted by Will757
    1) As soon as I put a condom on I lose my errection
    Just a random idea, but maybe you could practice putting condoms on as quickly as possible. The faster and more smoothly you can do it, the more erection will be left over for a few seconds afterwards.

    I assume you have the condom already unwrapped and waiting for you when you're ready; you're not trying to first open the package.

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    Originally Posted by mfan
    Just a random idea, but maybe you could practice putting condoms on as quickly as possible. The faster and more smoothly you can do it, the more erection will be left over for a few seconds afterwards.
    It's a good idea. There are at least two approaches that might work here:

    - Put it on really quickly (practice on your own).

    - Or the complete opposite - get her to put it on you and make the putting-on part of the foreplay - she can stimulate you while she is putting it on.

    In either case, especially the second one, maybe you could agree to try putting on a condom a few times without any expectation of intercourse. She could even give you a hand-job or something while you have it on. This might make you more comfortable with putting it on and having it on, as you stop associating it with pressure to perform.

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