Generation Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 I've been googling this topic and I've been reading mixed thoughts, from men and from women, so I thought hey why not just make my own thread and hear some more thoughts. What does it mean when a woman says she had a dream about you? Dream content unknown. Would she tell you she dreamed of you if she weren't interested or attracted to you? or would you tell that to guys you weren't interested in or attracted to? Does it mean anything? Link to comment
Natasha24 Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Personally, I use the phrase "I had a dream about you" as a very subtle way of flirting. I've said it to a few guys without having dreamt about them, just to initiate conversation. It always works But that's not necessarily the case for every woman. If I ever seriously have a dream about a guy who I have no interest in, I don't say anything to him about it. Link to comment
Donovan79 Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Ask her if her dream you brought her to orgasm in less than three minutes. If yes, it probably means she has a crush on you. No, in my experience it means she's interested, consciously or not. She has almost without a doubt spent some time thinking about you. Link to comment
boxy tee Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Without any bg info on the woman in question, it's really hard to tell. But there's a good chance there is some attraction there. Link to comment
eldillon1009 Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 I think it means this woman likes you or views you as a close friend. Chances are she wants to have a closer relationship with you. Otherwise, personally I won't bring it up to a guy I'm not interested or I know I can't be closer to. Link to comment
happyfrank Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 She thinks about you before going to bed. Link to comment
Lockwood Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 To be honest, in 99% of cases I'd take this as sure evidence that she likes you. Link to comment
and so it goes Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Any time a woman* says she thinks of you outside of the time when you are standing there then it's a good sign. Thinking of you subconscious and in bed is a plus too. Perhaps you should tell her you had a dream about her.... rider clause: your mom, grandma and ex's don't count, neither does anyone you owe money to. Link to comment
Klokwurk Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Lol at all the answers so far. When a girl says that to me, I usually say "hope it was a good dream!" and they usually laugh and I kid around with them about it for a while. It is not saying, "i want your body," but it is saying there is some kind of connection there, and I dont think you should be afraid to explore it. Link to comment
LightAndDark Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 If a girl told me she had a dream about me, I would kind of feel uncomfortable, not that she dreamed about me but that she told me. Link to comment
tango9 Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 What if she says she had a dream about you, in which you had a girlfriend that didn't let you see her anymore? Story is a bit more complicated than this, willing to provide details if needed. Link to comment
Sarah691607309662 Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 Generation, this is just another example for me how hard it is to interpret mixed signals. I would tell a guy that I saw him in my dream only if he is absolutely no candidate for flirting, hooking up, and there is no attraction whatsoever. I would say it to a guy whom I did see in my dream - I do see many people in my dream with whom I interact for work and not attracted at all. I would say it as means to cheer him up, to distract him from his gloom if I see the guy being gloomy, just to bring some smile to his face. It is purely a friendly gesture and I would do it ONLY with guys with whom I am 100% certain - there is no hope, no flirting, no possible misinterpretation. If I like a guy, I would never tell him that I saw him in my dream. In my opinion, it makes a guy very uncomfortable when said in this connotation. Link to comment
Heather Dawn Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 I've had dreams about the guys I work with and I have zero interest in them (I'm happily taken). And I've told them, not intending at all to come off as flirtatious - though they, of course, teased me. But I know them well, so maybe that's the difference. Link to comment
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