[QUOTE=shpongled;5456357]Hej, you're right yeah..Our live goals used to match and it's a pity to see that this is not the way any longer I don't think he tries to manipulate me on purpose, it's just his way of not thinking things through and regretting them later. I don't want children right now, but in the near future. I'm really afraid of leaving and thinking it might be the biggest mistake to leave such a long relationship that was fine so long, that he will marry the next girlfriend he has and that I'm the selfish person that can't wait until he copes with his problems and knows what he wants
He might change, and marry the next girlfriend, but that doesn't mean he would have married you eventually. Don't stick around for that reason. You've waited long enough. He would have known by now.