Now im sure im not the only guy to have this, and im not talking about the girls that dont start texting, convos or IM and reply with bland "ok, yes, no, cya" answers or no answers(because we all know that means one things, im not interested!). Im talking about the ones where you sit scratching your head if she likes you or not. Im sure theres guys out there that dont start convos with girls aswell, so this can go for both sexes.
Came to mind recently when talking to this girl and she never initiates ANYTHING but yet she replies? Always very talkative and interested in me, asking questions, flirty etc
She takes awhile to reply few hours sometimes a day, doesnt bother me as im very similar with this, as im busy and tend to like to reply when I have time to sit and think about what im saying rather than a rushed response.
I suppose it could be down to either her being shy, playing hard to get, dont want to be awkward or old fashion? The guy has to do the chasing and initiating?
I was the one that made the first move with her to take it beyond a talk in a bar to dancing with her, from a dance to kissing, was the one to get her number and contact her first, and the one to organise a date/dates. Some of which she hasnt been able to make but always suggests another time or date or has a very valid reason with it.
So from the word go ive been the one to make things happen, or take control.
So I ask this question, girls or guys why dont you start the contact by text, call, IM etc are you shy, playing hard to get, dont want to embarrass yourself, worried you will look clingy??
This is actually the first girl ive met like this, im used to girls that typically, they like you, they will start talking to you. Im just very persistent and when I see something I like its very hard for me to stop going after it.
Dont some girls see that it may be a double edge to this, as some guys may just leave you as they think your un interested or is this a way to weed out those players haha