Im in bad need of advice.
Me and my girlfriend have been together for allmost 10 years. I am 26, and she is 24. We have 2 kids, 2 and 3 years old. for the last year we have had serious problems, with lots of fighting ect. Due to many other factors in both our lives. And a week ago she said that she couldnt go on no more, that the feelings had slowly gone away, but now they are dead. I have kinda the same feeling, but the feelings are not dead to me. We have talked and she says she is willing to give it one more chance with couples therapy, or a health-coach. We are going to sit down and talk about what therapist/coach we will choose tomorrow. So my question is this: I am willing to give all i got left for this, but with her beeing "negative" is there any chance for us? Is there anything else i can do? Will therapy be of any help at all? Could her feelings come back if we stick it out a littlebit longer, with ACTUAL change? Anything I can say to her to get her that will give her more will to fight for this? Any advice at all i would really apriciate it, becouse I love her, and i love my kids, and this can hurt my life in i such a big way.
And sorry for the bad english, Im from Norway.