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    When a guy says your name during sex for the first time

    Hi guys,

    I've been dating this guy for several months, neither of us has said the L word but I definitely am feeling it and I kind of think he might be too.

    This weekend in the heat of passion he moaned my name. He's never done this before and it caught me off guard. I really liked it. I was pretty buzzed and I can't remember if I was moaning his name first lol.

    I can't imagine myself saying a guy's name during sex if I wasn't in love or at least really into him. What do you make out of this? I know I shouldn't try to read into it, but when a guy expresses very few feelings and emotions you take any crumb you can get and analyze it.

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    I once heard from an ex girl, if I guy only says the L word during sex its not a good thing.. because its sex he loves not u..

    Calling eachothers name is nice and sweet in the moment of Passion..

    I've been called and I called my partner a lot worse then just there names

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    You moan their name because what ELSE are you suppose to moan?

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    Quote Originally Posted by OptomisticGirl [Register to see the link]
    You moan their name because what ELSE are you suppose to moan?
    There's a lot of diff things u could moan..

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    Quote Originally Posted by 22n32 [Register to see the link]
    There's a lot of diff things u could moan..
    Yes, but it's their name. No need to look for feelings in a single moan name.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OptomisticGirl [Register to see the link]
    Yes, but it's their name. No need to look for feelings in a single moan name.
    I agree, first time OP heard it so it was new to her..

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    I would start laughing. I once had a guy say "I want to make love to you" during sex. LOL

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    What value could there be in trying to read into something like this? I swear it's almost as if some people really enjoy treating even the most minor thing as an opportunity to delve into psycho-analysis. lol.

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    True be glad he didn't say someone else's name. You should be like yes! I think it's bad to get into a habit of names during sex.

    It's almost as if he is reminding himself who he is having sex with and is repeating it so much that it comes out.

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    I wouldn't read too much into it. When people are into the heat of the moment all kinds of sounds and words come out, lol. Does he refer to you by your name in non-intimate situations?

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