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    Non-porn, instructional videos showing what having sex looks like?

    As a virgin, I want to prepare for having sex someday, but it is hard for me to fantasize about intercourse when I don't know what it looks like. Do you know of any free, online videos which are not pornos, which show examples of intercourse? I've seen plenty of diagrams and pictures, but there ought to be some actual videos some place. Not looking for any exotic positions, just regular.

    Thanks very much. -mfan

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    I have never had sex, but I doubt it's totally different

    I'd assume the biggest difference is that most real sex involves less positions and shorter strokes.

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    Just find amateur porn, it's pretty typical of sex.

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    I vote for amateur porn too.

    It's easy to find and it's the closest thing you can see to actual sex. These are real, actual, everyday couples who have sex together for the camera, usually just because they want to! The women are usually of average weight, so are the guys, and they sometimes switch positions and you can see them do foreplay too.

    I sometimes look at porn and this is the ONLY kind that I watch.

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    Hi mfan,

    The Lovers' Guide Interactive- The Ultimate Guide To Sex[DVD]
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    The above can be a little clinical. For your 'Average Joe Basics without the oiled up super-studs posing towards the camera, try youporn missionary sex. I don't want to post a direct link unless I'm contravening ENA's policies. It's fairly easy to find if you google it.

    Deci

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    I have to agree with Fudge
    It's probably the closest your going to get to watching the real thing and most appealing to watch since it's not staged.

    I think there are also documentaries with an instructional sort of guide but I don't think it's very helpful hearing some guy narrating along with what they are doing.

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    Discovery channel? We are not that far removed from the animals really.

    I remember having the same concerns as you back when I was a virgin. To my relief when I did have my opportunity to have sex for the first time arrived my "OMG we are actually doing it" thoughts drowned out my "Oh no, I have no idea what I'm doing". She had no idea I was a virgin, I guess I did alright.

    Anyway, I think it's all instinct anyway, centuries upon centuries of evolution (or whatever)

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    Well, instinct doesn't come naturally to everyone Thanks to all for your replies. [shuttlefish] That's awesome to know that your girlfriend didn't know you were a virgin on your first time!

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    2 girls teach sex. Some of the videos are actually good. torrent it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shuttlefish [Register to see the link]
    Discovery channel? We are not that far removed from the animals really.
    As the Bloodhound gang song goes:-
    You and me Baby ain't nothi'n but mammals,
    so let's do it like they do on the Discovery channel!

    Quote Originally Posted by mfan [Register to see the link]
    Well, instinct doesn't come naturally to everyone Thanks to all for your replies. [shuttlefish] That's awesome to know that your girlfriend didn't know you were a virgin on your first time!
    I have said this in another post, but it relates to the above post.
    Even when a man or woman has had experience they can still suck in bed.
    Sometimes is does come naturally sometimes it doesn't.

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