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Thread: guys,would you sometimes rather jerk off in shower then having sex with gf?

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    cursedgirl
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    guys,would you sometimes rather jerk off in shower then having sex with gf?

    me and my bf usually have sex like 2 or 3 times per week. other times he's tired and such..im ok with it and i thought it was just his sex drive.But today he told me 90% of time when he was having a shower,he was jerking off..so it;s like he jerks off pretty much every day. i can understand why he'd rather do it himself than do it with me..is it common for you guys?


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    I would say i do, time permitting

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    Me personally... no. Not sure why i would want to?

    If a guy has a higher sex drive i can see it being necessary to fulfill his needs, but not if she is at the same level or higher.

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    To answer your question I believe it is common for guys to continue to masturbate while they are in a relationship. What is common or usual isn't really the point if your sexual needs aren't being met. Having sex two to three times a week is fairly average. I think there are plenty of couples who have more sex and plenty who have less. Masturbating every single day in addition to having a healthy sex life with you does seem somewhat excessive. Seems to me the question at hand is whether or not your sexual needs are being met not what are considered normal sexual habits for guys.

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    Personally if am really sexually attracted to my gf, I will usually give up sleep for sex.

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    Perhaps youre not "in the mood" at the same time?
    Also it's posible to be tired but still have the URGE to get off, In which cases it can be much quicker and less effort to go "jerk off" as you put it.

    I don't think it's uncommon (or un healthy) as long as you don't feel negelected. Did you feel a need for a more active sex life Before you found out about the masturbation?

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    and another question : is it common guys think about sex with other girls other than your gf? my bf also tells me he will sometimes get hard just cuz some customers wear skanky dresses that show their ass and boobs and he will get turned on..

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    Quote Originally Posted by cursedgirl [Register to see the link]
    and another question : is it common guys think about sex with other girls other than your gf? my bf also tells me he will sometimes get hard just cuz some customers wear skanky dresses that show their ass and boobs and he will get turned on..
    Yes and no. Most guys cannot control their arousal level. It is a fact.

    Have a s----y looking women pass in front of a guys eyes and he will be having a tough time preventing an erection. We are designed that way on purpose.

    Having an erection does not automatically mean we want or desire sex. It is similar to when a girl sees a guy with their shirt off, six pack showing etc etc - they get wet even if they dont desire sex with that person.

    Being easily aroused is a positive for the survival of the human race. Think about it - if a guy and a girl can meet, have sex, and have the girl get pregnant in a whole 5 mins... that is a plus for our survival.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mouseno4 [Register to see the link]
    Yes and no. Most guys cannot control their arousal level. It is a fact.

    Have a s----y looking women pass in front of a guys eyes and he will be having a tough time preventing an erection. We are designed that way on purpose.

    Having an erection does not automatically mean we want or desire sex. It is similar to when a girl sees a guy with their shirt off, six pack showing etc etc - they get wet even if they dont desire sex with that person.

    Being easily aroused is a positive for the survival of the human race. Think about it - if a guy and a girl can meet, have sex, and have the girl get pregnant in a whole 5 mins... that is a plus for our survival.
    no but he also fantasies them that's why he gets hard

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    Most guys do. In fact, even girls do as well. Yep, it is true.

    Fact of life im afraid. As long as he stays loyal to you, that is all that matters.

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