Ask For Advice
Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 14

Thread: Guy tells me to leave him alone only to contact me later on

  1. #1
    greenlimes

    Join Date
    Jun 2011
    Posts
    2
    Gender
    Female

    Guy tells me to leave him alone only to contact me later on

    I was dating this guy a few months ago but then he turned crazy, literally. Things would be good for a week then he would cause unnecessary drama then tell me to leave him alone only to contact me a week or two later. This has happened about three times now. But each time he would say he changed his mind and is still mad at me. The big and final blow up happened 2 months ago. I was on vacation and he told me to just get laid and forget about him. We haven't talked since but last week he sent me a text saying he was thinking about me. What's going on??

  2. #2
    guynextdoor
    Platinum Member guynextdoor's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2009
    Location
    5280
    Posts
    3,586
    Gender
    Male
    Thanked
    35
    This guy is all drama.. Please dont' tell me you are falling for this guy and sticking around are you?

  3. #3
    greenlimes

    Join Date
    Jun 2011
    Posts
    2
    Gender
    Female
    Quote Originally Posted by guynextdoor [Register to see the link]
    This guy is all drama.. Please dont' tell me you are falling for this guy and sticking around are you?
    I must admit that I did like him a lot. Never thought I'd hear from him again but alas..

  4. #4
    Hollyj
    Platinum Member
    Join Date
    Dec 2007
    Posts
    7,897
    Thanked
    2156
    The guy has problems. I hope to God, you're not going to respond????

  5. #5
    CatsMeeoow
    Platinum Member CatsMeeoow's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    Location
    In The Middle Of It All
    Age
    47
    Posts
    3,238
    Gender
    Female
    Thanked
    74
    He likes you when there is nothing better going on in his world...

    IGNORE... IGNORE... IGNORE....

  6. #6
    MyNinja
    Gold Member MyNinja's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2004
    Location
    Near the Ocean Blue
    Posts
    1,771
    Thanked
    3
    Bi-polar perhaps??

    Run, RUN far away. What future could you possibly have with someone who is this unstable? Ignore and move on.

  7. #7
    TakingtheBlame
    Platinum Member
    Join Date
    May 2006
    Location
    Brooklyn, NY
    Age
    35
    Posts
    1,369
    Gender
    Female
    Thanked
    1
    What's going on? You said it yourself...he's crazy. It drives me nuts when people make excuses for the guys they are with..."I really like him, he's a great guy when he's not beating me" and such. If a person is a wonderful human being only half the time, and the other half he's making you suffer...how are you able to just overlook the bad half? Accept this guy is unstable and be glad you dodged a bullet. You can never logically explain crazy.

  8. #8
    Kitkat973
    Gold Member Kitkat973's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2011
    Posts
    695
    The pattern of instability is something that will only continue.

  9. #9
    Panblanco
    Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2011
    Posts
    18
    please, ignored him and don't let him come back. He just want to play games with you. i am a girl and from now on i wont take no * * * * from no guys, my ex abused me emotionally, physically, and mentally. don't let this happen to you. he is crazy

  10. #10
    Crazyaboutdogs
    Platinum Member Crazyaboutdogs's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2006
    Location
    Canada
    Age
    52
    Posts
    25,673
    Gender
    Female
    Thanked
    16
    I agree, he sounds very unstable. Next time he calls tell him to stop contacting you.

  11.  

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Top Threads
Chronically late girlfriend
Well, where to start... sorry this is a bit of a long post, but hopefully it's quite interesting or entertaining!... My girlfriend is chronically
[Confused] Girl went radio silence but got angry when I removed her
I've been talking to this girl that I've met through Tinder, everything went well and we shared our phonenumbers after that. We had a nice
My boyfriend was ashamed of my race
I am black and I have been with my Indian boyfriend for a year now and I have never met his family but only a friend and his best friend knows about
Need some advice please!
So I started talking to this guy threw a dating app. We talk everyday since the before the 4 of July. Just asking get to know type questions And
Idk what I see in these men?
So I fell for a guy who was not at same place in life as me. I ignored my instincts of what he lacked (age, maturity level etc) and fell for the
Healing and getting over a crush.
I am in my 40s, divorced last year and have had a really painful crush on a woman I have known for some time that sadly has not been
Depression after sex
Here is the back story: I met this guy on a dating site. We instantly connected and we texted for a few days and met up on the weekend. It really

Featured Threads
Parent and relationships problems
So clearly i need help sooo i will get right into the story.....sorry its so long I am a 25 year old male who is in a relationship with my 19
My boyfriend is trying to date other woman on online dating site.
I really need help. I am so confused. My boyfriend is on online dating site. He said he wants to date other women. We were on and off relationship
My wife left me without having even a talk
Hi everybody, I wonder if this is normal just to leave a marriage of 7 years without having a proper talk before moving on? It happened to me that
Confused about FWB
Last weekend my FWB and I made plans to meet up. He drove down from his place to go to a party with friends, afterwards he was coming to spend the
Everything is just JUMBLED
I have an extremely, EXTREMELY screwed up life. At least from my point of view it is. At least I think I'm the only one that knows my own
Getting over someone to be with them again later?
Long story short, my ex broke up with me after 4 years because he said he was immature and needed to grow up without me and part of that was meeting
Need Advice - it's urgent for me
Hello Everyone, I meesed up my life and I take full responsibilty. I ned advice and what to do to remedy the situation immediately and prevent it
Ask For Advice

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •