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    30's and 40's Guys Only: How long does it take to realize she is the "One"

    I know this is a long shot but I am curious. Do guys have a "aha" moment of when they know that the girl is the one and want to commit? On average, how long does it take to reach that conclusion?

    Thank you!

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    If you have to ask, then she isn't the "one".

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    For me, I really like to get to know someone.. so maybe a year but there is no real time line

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    I am not a 30-40 yr old guy, but I know from experience that thinking about "the one" (no such thing) is very dangerous and un-healthy. You should jsut let the relationship develop rather than creating some fantasy about two people being "meant" for each other.

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    It's different for everyone, but don't sacrifice your own goals and timeline in the process. Men have a tendency to procrastinate when given the opportunity, so make sure your man knows what you want out of life (and when)...then stick to it (with or without him). Good luck!


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