Ask For Advice
Results 1 to 10 of 10

Thread: What is the best way to get over something that has pissed you off?

  1. #1
    MyNinja
    Gold Member MyNinja's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2004
    Location
    Near the Ocean Blue
    Posts
    1,771
    Thanked
    3

    What is the best way to get over something that has pissed you off?

    I'm sort of a sensitive soul and when someone says something to me that may have offended or upset me I tend to stay irritated for awhile. I try to do things to get my mind off of whatever that upset me like playing my piano, going for a jog, writing or watching something funny on tv, but sometimes these activities don't help.

    This can get debilitating and it stresses me out and can ruin a perfectly good day. Controlling your thoughts isn't all that easy sometimes and I do my best to keep them in check, but I am human and can get a bit weak at times. any advice will be greatly appreciated.

    Until we meet again...

  2. #2
    The_Seeker
    Platinum Member The_Seeker's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2010
    Posts
    5,463
    Thanked
    1
    That's a good question.

    - Cars and Boys
    - Make pretty cupcakes
    - Cars and Boys
    - Paint
    - Cars and Boys
    - Working on my assignments in the library
    - Did I mention cars and boys?

    LOL I like cars. Boys :] just a fun way to talk to and get my mind off of things.

  3. #3
    annie24
    Super Moderator annie24's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2004
    Age
    36
    Posts
    46,090
    Thanked
    1277
    i'm sort of like that too. sometimes i try to put myself in the other person's shoes and try to understand why they did what they did. half the time it's because they were just being careless, not necessarily trying to hurt you. sometimes, it's just not worth the grey hairs it will cause. sometimes sleeping helps. i feel better usually the next morning.

  4. #4
    MyNinja
    Gold Member MyNinja's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2004
    Location
    Near the Ocean Blue
    Posts
    1,771
    Thanked
    3
    Its good to know I'm not the only one. I will try to put myself in their shoes and not concentrate on myself all the time. The_Seeker gave me an idea to get cinnamon rolls after saw that she mentioned cupcakes, lol

    Until we meet again...

  5. #5
    The_Seeker
    Platinum Member The_Seeker's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2010
    Posts
    5,463
    Thanked
    1
    Quote Originally Posted by mo'Nique [Register to see the link]
    Its good to know I'm not the only one. I will try to put myself in their shoes and not concentrate on myself all the time. The_Seeker gave me an idea to get cinnamon rolls after saw that she mentioned cupcakes, lol

    Until we meet again...
    omggg i could go for a cinnamon rolls right now!

  6. #6
    MasterPo
    Platinum Member MasterPo's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2010
    Location
    Southern Arizona
    Posts
    1,634
    Gender
    Male
    Thanked
    22
    I would suggest an environment. When something really gets to me, I go to this particular restaurant and sometimes just sit and order coffee and danish. Something about the colors and decor that calms me the hell down. I have a few spots and if whatever was particularly harsh I will visit them all. Somewhere along the way the unrest goes away.

    Exercise and cinnabon work too! :P

  7. #7
    The_Seeker
    Platinum Member The_Seeker's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2010
    Posts
    5,463
    Thanked
    1
    Quote Originally Posted by MasterPo [Register to see the link]
    I would suggest an environment. When something really gets to me, I go to this particular restaurant and sometimes just sit and order coffee and danish. Something about the colors and decor that calms me the hell down. I have a few spots and if whatever was particularly harsh I will visit them all. Somewhere along the way the unrest goes away.

    Exercise and cinnabon work too! :P
    Danish cheese! Ok tomorrow, I'm officially going to celebrate the lunar new year and eat all the desserts.

    Totally getting strawberry cheesecake. LOL

  8. #8
    annie24
    Super Moderator annie24's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2004
    Age
    36
    Posts
    46,090
    Thanked
    1277
    cinnabon disappoints me. it always smells better than it tastes.

  9. #9
    MyNinja
    Gold Member MyNinja's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2004
    Location
    Near the Ocean Blue
    Posts
    1,771
    Thanked
    3
    The trick with the cinnabon cinnamon is that you have to eat it almost immediately after they are out of the oven and only put a small amount of the icing. Cook them slowly and only let the bottom get light brown. They are delicious they way I bake them. The ones from the bakery kinda suck, lol

    Until we meet again...

  10. #10
    petite
    Forum Supporter petite's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Posts
    3,097
    Gender
    Female
    Thanked
    123
    Sometimes we just have to sulk it out and other times meditation and yoga do wonders.

  11.  

Top Threads
Forbidden love. He is Muslim, I am not. Never hurt like this
I don't want to go into too much detail but I met someone (lets call him John) a while back now (he is Muslim-this is important). It was all very
Had sex with me i was really drunk he was sober
So it happened a number of years ago and still it flashes in my mind everyday since. I was out with my friend the night it happened at some point I
How to cope in the modern era
Act "as if" everything is great, all the time. Never admit weakness, fear or failure. Never express negative emotions, act extremely happy and
I cry everyday
I cry everyday and I cannot do anything about it. As if there's a dark whole in my chest. Recently it became even worse due to breakup but its been
A little confused as to what to do?? please help
Hi Everyone my boyfriend suffers from bipolar type 1 I think t's called so it's not so much the hypomanic phase but the more depressed side of the
I Feel Rejected
I haven't felt a pain this extreme in so long. It all started with this guy I fell for pretty hard. He was basically what I imagine my dream man to
Another depressed bastard...
I am having the worst time trying to manage my depression. I have lived with it for more than 30 years, but only started doing something about it

Expert Advice
Featured Threads
Tired of Being His Provider??
Okay so I found this site through Google. This seems like a pretty common topic and I suppose I just need to vent. My husband has been unemployed
Beautiful women who works at lush...
So there is this a girl who works at this place. I've been in there twice now and she is a stunner. Its one of those girls who you have to look twice
Being left for another man by my ex girlfriend
My and my ex gf broke up 7 months ago back in late April. We had bad fights and she stated she was unhappy. She then proceeded to have an active
Wondering?
Ok, I posted before about my situation but I would like to further talk. This woman I became involved with 3 years ago TOLD me she had feelings for
Break up Advice Needed
Hi all, I really need some advice on my recent break up with my girlfriend of almost five years. A few months ago I started to feel unhappy and
She's getting ready for marriage. She thinks that it is what I want. My fault.
So, I am pretty much in a difficult situation. I have been with a girl for the past 4 years. In these 4 years, after a while I realized she really
Venting - Advice...?
Hello, Im a 36 year old male, married with 3 kids. My wife and I are pretty much like roommates. There is zero sex life and its from both ends
Ask For Advice

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •