cursedgirl Posted January 4, 2011 Share Posted January 4, 2011 i met a guy at my work place who's been playful/flirty around me since day one. more playful than flirty i think. ie he'd pinch me on my cheek,stuff paper into my shirt.mess with my computer and he often stands very close to me when we talk and is kinda touchy-feely. however when he's doing his own stuff he's pretty focused like im not existed...so it feels like he just enjoys playing with girls. it's confusing. i dont know if i should interpret it as he likes me,or he's just a big flirt. ive seen him talking to lots of other girls(we all work together), i just havent seen him getting close to them or touching them. however he may do that, but i didnt notice. does any of you know any guy like this? how do you deal with such a guy? Link to comment
Stilgard Posted January 4, 2011 Share Posted January 4, 2011 He is flirting... and if he is flirting, then he likes you (guys don't flirt with girls they dont like, unless they are absolute jerks). That doesn't mean he wants something with you though... that, is a different story. So yes, there is some degree of attraction, how much depends on how much he flirts. What you do with that attraction depends on the situation and what you both want. Link to comment
cursedgirl Posted January 4, 2011 Author Share Posted January 4, 2011 also in the past neither of my bf is flirty like him..so i really cant say i think he likes me,nor will he ask me out. Link to comment
ForumGuy Posted January 4, 2011 Share Posted January 4, 2011 Sounds like he is flirting. Don't mean to be a stick in the mud, but that kind of activity at work would get old to me real fast. Has he been doing this long? Link to comment
cursedgirl Posted January 4, 2011 Author Share Posted January 4, 2011 we dont see each other every day..basically 3 days in a week..and we've met each other for like only 2 weeks..so ,so far,yes he's been doing it every time we work together. Link to comment
Stay_home Posted January 4, 2011 Share Posted January 4, 2011 Why don't you try asking him why he screws around with you so much. Link to comment
FathomFear Posted January 4, 2011 Share Posted January 4, 2011 i met a guy at my work place who's been playful/flirty around me since day one. more playful than flirty i think. ie he'd pinch me on my cheek,stuff paper into my shirt.mess with my computer and he often stands very close to me when we talk and is kinda touchy-feely. Uh, I personally wouldn't call that "flirting". More "borderline sexual harassment". Pinching your cheeks, shoving stuff down your shirt, and standing really close to you and being "touchy-feely"? I'm not sure what kind of workplace you have, but that wouldn't be acceptable at mine. Link to comment
cursedgirl Posted January 4, 2011 Author Share Posted January 4, 2011 not down my shirt..just the collar part. standing close but he doesnt stick his body onto mine.and being touchy..like he put his hands on my shoulders while talking to me.but i dont think it's anything sexual..and it's nothing wrong with my work place..only he does that to me.none of the other guys do it. Link to comment
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