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Thread: Porn--Something your girlfriend needs to know?

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    Originally Posted by OptomisticGirl
    As long as he isn't saying no to me and ONLY getting off to porn, I see no problem with it. Men shouldn't feel ashamed to watch it, nor should women.
    I completely agree; as long as one isn't delving into harmful deviant activity with an unwilling partner.. (ie: bondage/drugging.. etc)

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    The fact that you feel guilty is your God given conscience and is the answer to your question. It is not only morally wrong to watch porn but is a sin that Satan so loves to tempt us with and usually finds it very easy to seduce one to watch these images. The common idea that porn is ok is one that was established "By the father of lies and the unseen ruler of this world"--Satan. I myself knowing this will even get the urge to visit a porn website just out of the blue and I sometimes falter in my ability to resist the temptation. But know this, when the thought arises to do so, who planted that thought in your mind. But yes as far as your girlfriend is concerned she has a right to know that your eyes and lusts are not solely set on her. Being up front with her about this would be a true testament of your love and respect for her in not trying to decieve her. As a woman I myself have found the inner thoughts can be cruel to us women by making us compare ourselves with the harlotts in the porn industry making us believe we fall short every time to what is desirable in our man's mind and eye. So even if you dont view it in a spirutal sense as to what porn really is look at it as showing your girlfriend great respect when you tell her this is something that you watch sometimes. In the end she would probably find out and it's better she not become unsure of your love for her by seeing you hiding it from her and being decietful about it. I hope this helps and good luck in your relationship!

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    Why do you think so many women are hurt at the discovery of the ones they love watching porn? What is it in the nature of the women that is being affected by such images being viewed by there husbands?

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    I think it is great you got out of the industry and now have a more informed view and idea as to what porn really consists of compared to others who view it as just an image. Like you said the fact is that image consists of a very lost soul one which has probably been sexually abused as a child or one that is an addict or one that has terrible childhood memories. The fact that they, with this sort of past, having resorted to porn as their aspiration in this life, is really a testament to the true filth porn really is in the lives of these poor women. Granted some may be in the industry for the lust of money but I sometimes wonder what made them take this path and how they must really feel inwardly. Even after all this the lust of the eyes is a powerful thing and I even find myself in the path of this temptation. Yes, you are so right you had intervention in your life from God to remove you from the industry taking off your blinders to see it for what it really is. What a true display of love when He guided you away from that lifestyle

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    I don't have a problem with my SO watching porn, and I also don't need to know about it. It's not my business.

    If it gets to the point where it becomes an addiction or negatively affects our relationship that's another story.

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    Originally Posted by Wistful
    Why aren't all guys like that? LOL
    My thoughts exactly.

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