I am finding that the more I act confidant, act like I am dating a few men, don't seem to eager to go out, tease, act like I don't care so much, let them bring up relationship stuff, and act totally unpredectable and mysterious the more the guy is interested.
Whenever I act needy, talk relationship stuff, seem to really care and make myself very available the guy I am seeing gets turned off.
It's so hard to act the first way when you truly are into someone, but sad to say I am finding that I have to or a man will loose interest. I have tested this time and time again and it is the case. Now when in an exclusive relationship it's a little bit different but somewhat the same to keep the spice going. My friends, men and women agree as well.
Do you agree? Is this just men or women as well? Is this just the way it is and human nature working at it's best??????