Ask For Advice
Page 1 of 4 1234 LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 31

Thread: He's got a ring on middle finger..any meanings?

  1. #1
    xyzzzz
    Silver Member
    Join Date
    Feb 2010
    Posts
    987
    Gender
    Female

    He's got a ring on middle finger..any meanings?

    For the guy I have a crush on..I noticed he's got a ring on his middle finger..sometimes he doesnt wear it sometimes he does..will there be any meaning under it? Or highy possile it's from his gf (if he has one)?Cuz I thought single guys dont really wear such thing...

  2. #2
    Jd1983
    Platinum Member Jd1983's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Age
    33
    Posts
    5,278
    Gender
    Female
    Thanked
    7
    To be honest, I don't think the ring means anything.

    Now if it was on his ring finger, that's a different story.

  3. #3
    xyzzzz
    Silver Member
    Join Date
    Feb 2010
    Posts
    987
    Gender
    Female
    Cuz so far one of my friend says it could be his "man-meat" ring and it is from his gf

  4. #4
    Jd1983
    Platinum Member Jd1983's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Age
    33
    Posts
    5,278
    Gender
    Female
    Thanked
    7
    This is what I found on the web:

    A black ring (usually hematite) on the middle finger of the right hand is a universal, but not well-known, symbol of asexuality.

    Do you guys talk? If so, why not just ask him if he has a gf?

  5. #5
    Nomadic Intent
    Member Nomadic Intent's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2010
    Location
    Gold Coast, Australia
    Age
    35
    Posts
    153
    Gender
    Male
    Ummm... No.

    back in my early 20's i wore a lot of rings on different fingers that i had bought, and i was witha gf back then, but i wore them for me. not for her.

    Plus she and i had varying wardrobes anyway. I was more alternative. So could be this guy. Its most likely a statement of individuality.

    Why not just ask him if there's any significance to the ring? And is this the same guy you've ben posting about xyyzzz? You still don't know if he has an SO?

  6. #6
    xyzzzz
    Silver Member
    Join Date
    Feb 2010
    Posts
    987
    Gender
    Female
    hmm? i dont remember if ive posted him before? but we just talked once and I havent asked him about the ring. Besides I never saw him wearing this ring before...oh actually it just reminded me..quite a long time ago I saw him wear a different ring..

  7. #7
    xyzzzz
    Silver Member
    Join Date
    Feb 2010
    Posts
    987
    Gender
    Female
    Quote Originally Posted by Nomadic Intent [Register to see the link]
    Ummm... No.

    back in my early 20's i wore a lot of rings on different fingers that i had bought, and i was witha gf back then, but i wore them for me. not for her.

    Plus she and i had varying wardrobes anyway. I was more alternative. So could be this guy. Its most likely a statement of individuality.

    Why not just ask him if there's any significance to the ring? And is this the same guy you've ben posting about xyyzzz? You still don't know if he has an SO?
    I just feel if it really is very possible from a SO, I dont even wanna bother talking to him anymore..
    However my friends say he doesnt look like he has a gf..lol Im surprised such thing can be observed?

  8. #8
    sophie274
    Platinum Member sophie274's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Posts
    5,003
    Thanked
    395
    I wouldn't think too much about it. A lot of sort "artsy/alternative" guys I know wear rings simply because they like the way they look. I personally (female) wear a ring on my middle finger that one of my best female friends bought for me when I visited her in my hometown.

    You could always say something to him like that you like your ring and does it have any special significance to him? A lot of rings do for people - so I don't think it's too weird a question.

  9. #9
    alli
    Platinum Member alli's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Age
    32
    Posts
    5,471
    Gender
    Female
    Thanked
    307
    I think it probably means he has a ring that he likes to wear sometimes.

    Why don't you just ask him if he has a girlfriend? It doesn't have to be that direct question. Ask him what he's up to this weekend (or any upcoming weekend). If he doesn't mention a girlfriend, say something like "No plans with your girlfriend then?" & he will either say "Well, she is doing xyz" which tells you he has one, or the obvious "Oh, I don't have a girlfriend".

    Why spend so much energy analyzing this when you can just talk to him & find out??

  10. #10
    Nomadic Intent
    Member Nomadic Intent's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2010
    Location
    Gold Coast, Australia
    Age
    35
    Posts
    153
    Gender
    Male
    Quote Originally Posted by alli [Register to see the link]

    Why don't you just ask him if he has a girlfriend?

    Why spend so much energy analyzing this when you can just talk to him & find out??
    I see so many threads here on ENA about this topic. Personally it frustrates me to no end, how people choose to over analyze and suffer through their thoughts instead of seizing the moment and finding out.

    I understand confidences are different for everybody, or a lack thereof, but being a former shy guy i can no longer accept how people choose self-inflicted-anxiety instead of asking one simple question.

  11.  

Page 1 of 4 1234 LastLast
Top Threads
When a feamle professor says, "I ame here if you need me."
Hi, My female professor emailed to say, "I'm here if you need me." I was wondering what she really meant. She is my dissertation Chair and mentor
Should I be worried about this? He hasn't texted.
I have a close male friend who I've recently admitted to having feelings for. He responded by telling me that he has feelings for me too, maybe "not
Is there something wrong with me?
My dear enotalone members, I need your help. Of course, I would like to date or eventually end up with a good guy. I rarely meet nice guys
How do I turn on my guy friend to drive him insane? (Im 17m)
So I have a bi friend and want tips on how I can turn him on making him super horny without being too invasive at first, I wanna know subtle ways to
Is she shy, not interested or playing hard to get? Or something else? :D
Sry for the long post in advance :D There's this girl who lives in the same neighbourhood (block) as me. We sometimes take the same bus to the
I love my girlfriend. She likes me.
I am a 17 year old male and I have been dating my current girlfriend for roughly eight months. It is the first real relationship either of us have
Not Exactly Sure How To Read This Situation (Friend Zoned?)
Hey guys. I'm gonna attempt to make this short and sweet and fill in details later. About two months ago I joined a group of people with common

Expert Advice
Featured Threads
Where do you draw the line? GF's and guy friends
[SIZE=3][FONT=Helvetica]Hey guys, need some quick help on this one. Please help [/FONT] [FONT=Helvetica] [/FONT] [FONT=Helvetica]Yesterday my GF says
OMG he has a wedding date.
All, A couple of years ago, I dated a guy. There were things that were amazing but also horrible. A little over a year ago, we reconnected. He
HELPPP!!! Boyfriend broke up with me out of the blue
hi. REALLY REALLY NEED SOME ADVICE AND HELP. my boyfriend recently broke up with me out of the blue and we were dating for 2.5 years. everything was
Why does this bother me so much?
Hey guys. So gf of 7 years has left me for another guy again long story short and some of you know the long. So I did the unhealthy habit of looking
My girlfriend of 3 years just told me she is polyamorous
I have no idea how to feel about it. She assured me she didn't want to force it on me and could live monogamously with me but the thought of
Dealing with inconsiderate, selfish people from dawn till dusk.
Not sure if this is posted in the right place, but here it is. Lately my life seems to be about dealing with people who are inconsiderate. From
Toxic relationship // venting
Sometimes writing everything out helps me get a better understanding of certain situations. I'm sorry for the long post, I do want some advice, but
Ask For Advice

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •