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    If you could give yourself a blow job and did, would you consider that to be gay act?

    Okay, so I was watching some show a long time ago and a guy was very flexible and basically contorted himself into a position where he could have given himself a blow job. So obviously that got me thinking of important things like: if you could, would you? And do you feel like that would be gay?

    Well I asked my best buddies and all of their initial reactions were: "OMG GAY!" But think about it guys, we give ourselves hand jobs (masturbating) all the time and that isn't gay, why would giving yourself a blow job be? That said, I still don't think I would be able to do it, but I guess you never know what a couple lonely nights will do to you.

    Alright, participation time: Would you do it? What would you think of someone else who did it? Would you consider it to be homosexual? What is your sexual orientation. And of course, any other random thoughts you have on this!

    (Women feel free to answer a female version of the predicament.)


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    I don't think it's gay, but I don't think I'd do it to myself if I could. For some reason the idea freaks me out!

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    No, even if I could do this, I wouldn't. The idea grosses me out.

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    If giving yourself a hand job is gay, then...

    Pardon me, but women's beach volleyball is on....

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    Ditto with the others. I wouldn't consider it gay, but I wouldn't do it even if I could either.

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    Trust me, WE ALL would do it, guys definitely would. If we couldn't reach there with our hands, we would probably find handjobs weird too.

    Lets ask it this way...If you could suck on your finger and orgasm, would you do it? I bet we all would. There is not much difference with genitals really.

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    Quote Originally Posted by worriedgirl [Register to see the link]
    Trust me, WE ALL would do it, guys definitely would. If we couldn't reach there with our hands, we would probably find handjobs weird too.

    Lets ask it this way...If you could suck on your finger and orgasm, would you do it? I bet we all would. There is not much difference with genitals really.
    See I kind of think that would be the case as well. Of course though I'm going to safely say I wouldn't since I know I'll never have the opportunity; I can barely do that touch your toes thing.

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    Yeah, I totally would. Gay? Nah. Just a new form of masturbation.

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    I think in order to be gay you need to be sexually attracted to the same sex. If you're blowing yourself, but have no attraction to the same sex, then how exactly is that gay?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dako [Register to see the link]
    If giving yourself a hand job is gay, then...

    Pardon me, but women's beach volleyball is on....
    that's what i was thinking, lol!

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