-Worried- Posted June 14, 2010 Share Posted June 14, 2010 I haven't had much luck with the dating game, and I'm trying to change that... starting with how I dress. I'm very feminine, and I also like other feminine women... do the ladies here think I would have a better chance if I dressed more masculinely? What do other feminine women look for, style-wise? Link to comment
meteorstrike Posted June 14, 2010 Share Posted June 14, 2010 I knew a girl that was feminine but she wanted to become more butch. she started to look like a Korean boy but she got fewer dates because she felt less attractive. Link to comment
glegend Posted June 14, 2010 Share Posted June 14, 2010 Get yourself a pain of TNA pants and well you will turn heads from everyone Link to comment
abitbroken Posted June 14, 2010 Share Posted June 14, 2010 I would BE YOURSELF. If you are very feminine, dress that way. I have met a few lesbian couples who were "lipstick" as they called themselves. They were both professional women and they did a lot of shoe shopping together. Just broaden your net of the places you try to meet gals at or go online. If you try to be something you aren't, you will be miserable. Link to comment
Oryxx Posted June 14, 2010 Share Posted June 14, 2010 Changing who you are to attract someone else generally isn't a good thing. Link to comment
Just_14 Posted June 15, 2010 Share Posted June 15, 2010 agreed.. stay just the way you are.. Link to comment
Kaytie Posted June 17, 2010 Share Posted June 17, 2010 Whatever you are comfortable with - stay that way. I am a femme, but have dated all sorts of women. Not everyone is so rigid with their 'type.' Link to comment
RaeKarma Posted June 30, 2010 Share Posted June 30, 2010 Just be yourself. I am femnine and i love femenine women. Just try and check out new spots to find dates. Never change who you are, you are beautiful when you are being yourself. Link to comment
cutedisaster-x Posted July 5, 2010 Share Posted July 5, 2010 Like others have said, be yourself. No girl is going to want someone who's pretending the whole time they are together just to make the other happy. You would both be more happy if you were yourself. Personally I'm very feminine and I'd much rather a feminine girl rather than a butch girl ! Link to comment
Lucy__lou Posted July 11, 2010 Share Posted July 11, 2010 Ditto what everyone above said. Be yourself. Confidence is hot. The down side to being Femme is that sometimes you don't set of the Lezdar alert as easily as you would if you were all Butchy. Just means you have to find alternative ways to get the attention of the Ladies, and be assertive, cause someone has to be. Just an observation. I think there's a difference between Hetero Femme and Homo Femme. Hard to pinpoint, but I think Lesbian Femmes are just that bit more blunt in their femininity. And enjoy being Femme in a more indulgent way. Sorry I can't be more help. Good luck! Link to comment
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