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    Measuring how many times you had sex in one night...

    I noticed that people occasionally mention that they had sex with someone [insert_number] times in one night. But how do you measure when one sex session ends and the next one starts?

    I mean, if you are going for 4 hours straight and never take a break, is that just one time? I also noticed that women seem to believe it should be measured by the number of times that a guy orgasms, but why not how many times the women orgasms (or both together)? And by that logic, if the guy doesn't orgasm, does that mean you had sex zero times that night? (Hahaha, I just know someone is going to take that and use it as an excuse why they are still a virgin. :P )

    So how do you measure it?

    And why does this even matter? Well it just does! They fate of the world rests in the answers we get here.

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    I have nothing to contribute here except to say hi Jpo and welcome back!

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    Hey Hex! Nice to see you again. I tired to escape these forums, but I've already passed its event horizon and the black hole sucked me back. :P

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    I usually measure it by the breaks we take from sexual activity. Like if we're going at it, then stop penetration to do oral for 10 minutes, then back to penetration, that's still one time. If we stop and decide to nap/shower/eat etc before going at it again, that's 2 times.

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    I go by how many times I orgasm.
    My sessions don't normally last for 4 hours though lol. 45 mins to an hour is good enough for me If you last 4 hours, then there's a problem lol.

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    OK, so an Italian, a Frenchman, and an American board the same train to somewhere. After they get bored playing cards, they begin to brag about their sexual prowess.

    The Italian says "last night, I made love to my wife three times, and in the morning she told me what a wonderful lover I was.

    The Frenchman says "last night, I made love to my wife five times, and in the morning she told me that I was the best of all her lovers, past and present."

    The American says nothing.

    Finally, the Europeans can't take the suspense any more and the Italian asks the American: "So, how many times did you make love to your wife last night?"

    "Just once."

    Barely able to contain a smirk, the Frenchman asks "And what did she say to you in the morning?"

    "Don't stop."

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    Without getting tooooo graphic...

    When it goes down (usually do to orgasm) and you have to wait a period of time (refractory period) and/or do something else before it's even able to come back up. That's one session.

    It's totally dependent on the guy. I have no idea how a lesbian couple would count their "sessions". They could just keep going and going and going...

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    I think it's more about how many times the guy cums, because that's usually a bigger of a deal than when the woman cums. You know why? because we can cum and cum and cum again,lol. The refractory period for us can be just a few minutes. I don't like to do it more than 3 or 4 in a row when I'm with a partner tho and usually because the mental excitement goes away after that and I can't stimulate my mind enough to orgasm, physically I have no problem.

    I measure by the number of times he cums or if we take a break in between. I have to admit, it really impresses me (and makes me happy!) when a guy can cum a few times in a row.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RedDress [Register to see the link]
    Without getting tooooo graphic...

    When it goes down (usually do to orgasm) and you have to wait a period of time (refractory period) and/or do something else before it's even able to come back up. That's one session.

    It's totally dependent on the guy. I have no idea how a lesbian couple would count their "sessions". They could just keep going and going and going...
    yup. but i honestly dont count. my ex and i would "have sex" 3 times, every time and i would just call it once. not that anybody is particularly interested in the details of my sex life anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RedDress [Register to see the link]
    Without getting tooooo graphic...

    When it goes down (usually do to orgasm) and you have to wait a period of time (refractory period) and/or do something else before it's even able to come back up. That's one session.

    It's totally dependent on the guy. I have no idea how a lesbian couple would count their "sessions". They could just keep going and going and going...
    Okay... well, that makes it confusing. I, personally, don't go down by the time I'm ready to go again. Sometimes, I can go right back at it, but definitely count it as a new session because most guys seem to not be able to.

    Lol, we'd be done and she'd go to clean up and I'd come in the bathroom, still ready to go, and go "wooh, all that great sex made me horny!"... usually which resulted in some fun teasing and her telling me to go behave myself.

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