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    close friend had this dream of HAVING SEX with me

    My close friend who is of the opposite sex, explained to me the dream he had where we were having sex, and then i was complaining that i look fat and unhappy with my boobs. after that, we fought about it because he doesnt agree with the idea of plastic surg that i wanted to do, and ended we never talked again.
    he went on by saying that it was "awesome, passionate, it was all day, we kissed we touched we had sex, foreply, blowjb was awesome, and that u were a great kisser."
    nothing serious here, but just want to know what do dreams like this usually mean? specially by a close friend.

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    How did you feel about him telling you about the dream?

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    I wouldn't look to heavily into it. Probably just a combination of being horny and maybe thinking of you a bit. Of course, if you wanted to pursue something, he might be receptive .

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    I don't think dreams like that mean much- but I do think it is odd that he took it to another level and actually TOLD you about it.

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    I think the fact that he was so open about telling you about said dream means he's been thinking about it a lot since having the dream and is possibly sending you a not-so-subtle hint that he's attracted to you.

    As for dream interpretation, it probably just means he's horny. Nothing too complex there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BellaDonna [Register to see the link]
    I don't think dreams like that mean much- but I do think it is odd that he took it to another level and actually TOLD you about it.
    Yes, this is what I was thinking. It's one thing to have a sex dream about a friend of the opposite sex (I think those are normal or at least not concerning), but it's another to tell that friend in detail about what you were doing and actually enjoying it and not being embarrassed about it. I don't know, it would make me feel a bit uncomfortable. I know if I had a sex dream about a close male friend I wouldn't tell him- I'd be way too embarrassed- unless I felt something more for him and wanted to hint it at him.

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    Dreams don't mean much, but how he felt afterwards is what you should be concerned about..

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    Quote Originally Posted by jengh [Register to see the link]
    I think the fact that he was so open about telling you about said dream means he's been thinking about it a lot since having the dream and is possibly sending you a not-so-subtle hint that he's attracted to you.
    My thoughts exactly...

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    Your friend wants you, and there's no other way to read the story. In fact, I'm guessing that he embellished some of the details.

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    I think him telling you about it shows a level of comfort with you. Not a bad thing at all. How do you feel about him having this dream? I have had a few of these dreams and I have told them about it. They usually kind of laugh it off and have had one who said had the same dream once.

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