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    Quote Originally Posted by annie24 [Register to see the link]
    is it possible she had just gotten back from the eye doctor and had gotten her pupils dialated? just a possibility. or maybe she has sensitive eyes or was crying? or has pink eye and doesn't want everyone to see it?
    I saw a guy wearing sunglasses inside.

    I admit, I judged him and thought he just wanted attention. Turns out he tripped the day before and gave himself a really bad black eye on the fall down.

    I felt really bad for thinking ill of him. I'm trying to work on letting my boyfriend do more silly things and not letting it bother me. I just feel like everyone is staring at me and judging me when he's on one of his weird bouts. But, we've talked about it and I'm trying to care less about what he does.

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    Don't sweat the small stuff.

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    ive had a really bad week

    1. uncle died
    2. work is really bad
    3. my mum had a nervous breakdown
    4. I am behind in my work
    5. boyfriend is diagnosed with social anxiety
    6. boyfriend told me he hates my best friend


    MIght have something to do with the fact I am picky.

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    Ugh.I hate bright sunlight indoors.Whats the point of THAT?? I would have worn sunglasses too.I hate squinting while trying to enjoy a relaxing meal. Lay off the poor guy.His peepers probably hurt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by soursobgirl [Register to see the link]
    ive had a really bad week

    1. uncle died
    2. work is really bad
    3. my mum had a nervous breakdown
    4. I am behind in my work
    5. boyfriend is diagnosed with social anxiety
    6. boyfriend told me he hates my best friend


    MIght have something to do with the fact I am picky.
    This is the reason then. You have a lot on your mind and you feel irritated which is why you are picking on this. Have you talked to your boyfriend about what's going on in your life? Maybe you are trying to cause friction just to be able to let some of what you are going through out.

    Also I am sorry about your uncle and you mum.

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    Quote Originally Posted by soursobgirl [Register to see the link]
    ive had a really bad week

    1. uncle died
    2. work is really bad
    3. my mum had a nervous breakdown
    4. I am behind in my work
    5. boyfriend is diagnosed with social anxiety
    6. boyfriend told me he hates my best friend


    MIght have something to do with the fact I am picky.
    Maybe that's why he had the sunglasses on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by theshoefairy [Register to see the link]
    This is the reason then. You have a lot on your mind and you feel irritated which is why you are picking on this. Have you talked to your boyfriend about what's going on in your life? Maybe you are trying to cause friction just to be able to let some of what you are going through out.

    Also I am sorry about your uncle and you mum.
    Do you think so? We have beenthrough alot these past few weeks. Its really hard dealing with everything. I try and be strong but alot of my friends think he is a weirdo because of his social anxiety. I mean how do I not listen to all my friends when they all think he is creepy and weird.

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    Quote Originally Posted by soursobgirl [Register to see the link]
    Do you think so? We have beenthrough alot these past few weeks. Its really hard dealing with everything. I try and be strong but alot of my friends think he is a weirdo because of his social anxiety. I mean how do I not listen to all my friends when they all think he is creepy and weird.
    As long as you want to be with him, that is all that matters. Don't pay attention to what your friends have to say as long as he is treating you right. When I have a lot on my plate, i can get irritable and snap easily too. I think it's pretty normal really.

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    Yea I think it's a bit picky. You could have maybe said it in a nice sweet way like "I want to see your eyes hun" and if he said no, I'd just let it go.

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    My best friend who knows there is an issue hasnt even tried to make contact with him to fix the issue. He thinks that she doesnt show him respect. So she said she would and once again he doesnt think he gets respect. Now she has done nothing to patch this up from her end.

    This is part of my "snappyness" as such.

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