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    Thinkingin10s
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    Can you be lovers then friends then lovers again?

    Again, my backstory is out there, but I have had contact with my ex. I know she doesn't want me back, but damn this false hope. She said something about a dawson's Creekanalogy, where two characters reconnected after years.

    She is dating someone now, as am I. She hassaid h doesn't mean anything to her, and that they are winding down, but has said this before and she is still dating him. She is heavily forcing the friend card on me. I am all or nothing, but cant seem to get the thought of this woman out of my life as a reality. For 5 years she was my everthing.

    She has said my antics to get her back have only pushed her futher away. Thinking that we will never be a romantic couple again makes me so horribly depressed. I owe the new girl in my life 100%, but my love for the ex won't die...so can you be lovers then friends then lovers again?

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    Thoughts like that are unhealthy for you, her, and your current SO. I think that it may be best for you to take a break from relationships in order to do a little self evaluation. Take some time to find out if you are still in love with the ex or just the idea of her.

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