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    How to prevent being led on?

    What does one do to prevent being used? How do I know she's going out with me because she likes me, and not just because she enjoys getting out once in a while and having money spent on her?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vinceval [Register to see the link]
    What does one do to prevent being used? How do I know she's going out with me because she likes me, and not just because she enjoys getting out once in a while and having money spent on her?
    See if she asks you back out for another date or offers to pay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vinceval [Register to see the link]
    What does one do to prevent being used? How do I know she's going out with me because she likes me, and not just because she enjoys getting out once in a while and having money spent on her?
    start taking her on dates that don't require much money. have you kissed her or anything?

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    Usually don't know you're being used for sure until you go dating a few times and notice a attitude when they pay for even some of the dinner or whatever.
    Or they may seem to have a lack of interest if you don't have exciting & crazy entertaing nights everytime you both go on dates.

    I tend to aviod telling potential dates what my occupation is and what sort of income I have.
    I don't like to give ANY indication to how much money I earn where I can help it.

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