My boyfriend recently confessed his attraction to t-girls, so the subject is something I'm desperately searching to understand. There's really no info online about why some straight guys are into this, at least I haven't been able to find anything. The one thing I have discovered is that many straight men are attracted to t-girls. A lot of them, in fact most of them, aren't even sure why? My boyfriend is one of them. He can't figure it out and it's something he feels a great deal of shame about. Because I've been so loving and understanding, I've shown him he can be open with me about this and not feel like he has to keep it a secret from me. As supportive as I've been, I must admit, it hasn't been easy for me to understand.
Finding out my boyfriend was into this was difficult for me to deal with/understand. I've never been exposed to this world (meaning t-girls) so it was quite a culture shock for me. It created a lot of doubt within our relationship and caused me to feel inadequate as a woman. The news came very recently, so my feelings are still very raw. We're taking it day by day and trying not to let this destroy our relationship. We love each other, there's no doubt there. With open communication and lots of love, I'm sure we can get through this. I still have questions though - and fears, of course.
My fears are mostly about the future. What happens when/if his lust for t-girls overpowers him and he starts hooking up on the side, etc? Again, this is only a fear, it's not something I know will ever happen for sure. Straight men that have a strong sexual attraction to t-girls, something I can never live up to, are they capable of being content in life without it? Obviously, I don't have a penis, does that mean eventually he'll cheat? Not that someone's attraction to t-girls means their a cheater. However, because he has a strong sexual attraction to what they can offer him, does than mean eventually he'll be unable to fight that desire?
Regarding our sex life, as I'm sure this question will be asked. He and I have NO PROBLEMS at all in the bedroom. If anything, it's the best sex of my life. We've been together a year and three months and we still have out-of-this-world, mind-blowing sex. We have sex practically every day. He's never had a problem staying hard or anything like that. From the start, we've always had a great connection in bed. We keep things interesting, spice it up with sex toys, dirty talk, porn, etc. Some days we end up making love and some days we end up tearing each other up. No matter what we do, it's always amazing! We're both very sexual people and we're pretty much open to trying anything together. We even watch t-girls porn together and sometimes I'll put on a strap-on and watch him go down on me. We role play like this a lot and it doesn't bother me. If anything, it makes me feel like I'm able to satisfy that desire he has. Also, we both make it a priority to look good for each other - The physical attraction to each other is undeniable. I felt I should share that with you folks, in case you wondered if we were still intimate, etc. Again, I can't stress it enough, it's the best sex of my life.
I'd love to get some feedback from some straight men that have been with, or want to be with, t-girls. I'm trying so hard to understand all this. It's my priority to be the best partner I can be, to my boyfriend. I don't judge him, not at all, I just want to understand. Please, feel free to share ANYTHING with me about this. I only ask that no one judge me, or anyone else that may comment here. I'm reaching out for help any negative comments will only be hurtful, not helpful.