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    Platinum Member Ms Darcy's Avatar
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    You answered all of your own concerns in your first post.

    When will you gather the strength to leave?

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    What more can you do if he refuses to discuss this and refuses to change?
    On top of the content (i.e. won't put status on FaceB, etc.) the above is really the crux of it.

    After 3 years, it is very much time to begin to gather the inner resources needed to let this relationship go. And I am very sorry for the great pain that this might likely initially cause you. Though hard to see now, there is a more suited romantic match for you, one that will carry more the energy of romantic peace, compatibility and contentment.

    Though you may always feel sorry that it didn't work out (which is a dif. thing altogether than feeling sorry about splitting up) you will feel extremely glad that you moved on.... And you can move on with integrity in knowing that you gave it ample time, patience, and tried your very best.... In the end, when he wasn't responding, you needed to take care of you & respect your own spirit......

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    I've been away for awhile trying to regroup.
    I still have to talk to him and tell him how I'm feeling and its time to part.. its just very hard and I am finding it hard to muster up the strength to do so.

    I know I have to now, its best for the both of us..

    Thank you all for putting the time in to reply.
    I tried the other day to start the conversation off but he lead it on another direction and I couldnt go on with it. So now here I am trying again to get it out in the open.

    Its just hard.

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    Update:

    Sad to say but I knew it was coming. We broke up this week. Maybe for the best I know but it still hurts like hell. Think I will move this conversation over to the healing after a breakup section, because I know i need the help to keep going and stay strong.
    Thanks to all that took the time to post to me here.
    It meant alot.

    Brahma

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    Oh hun - sorry you are hurting.

    I applaud you for having the strength to do something about that unsatisfactory relationship. That is key here - you KNOW this is the right path.

    Keep your head up doll, we are all here to support you.

    Mark

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    ((((((((( hugs ))))))))) to you Mark. You have been here for me for so long. Your a very special person.

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