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Thread: Girlfriend ignores my texts...getting on my nerves

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    Girlfriend ignores my texts...getting on my nerves

    Almost any time I text my girlfriend about a concern of mine, she ignores it. May be little things like a time we're going to meet up, that I'm not feeling good, or something along those lines. She just won't respond back. I don't say anything about it, but it annoys the crap out of me. Especially because when I do the same thing back to her, she gets pissed at me and says "Oh, so you don't wanna talk to me. I'll just leave you alone."

    Like today, I sent her a text that said I'm not feeling well. No response. Then 5 minutes later I see her on facebook updating her status.

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    Originally Posted by BoddenProBowler06
    I don't say anything about it
    It's time you mention it to her.

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    I definitely agree that you need to speak to her about the things that bother you. Bottling everything up is never a good thing, because eventually you will explode. A relationship is based on good communication, you can't expect her to be a mind reader.

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    You mentioned that you don't say anything about it. Why not? I think you should talk to her about it, in person.

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    Talk to her about. Wait till you cool down, even though it bothers you so you won't talk to her in an emotionally explosive mood. But definantly talk to her...

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    How often do you text? If its non stop, maybe it gets on her nerves.....hence no reply.

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    It sounds like she doesn't care about you.

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    1. Don't text. Especially if its something important.
    2. Talk to her.

    Her actions are saying "I don't care.." its time to talk to her. Or, stop texting and pick up the phone and talk.

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    People don't always reply to texts. They might see it, be in the middle of something, shut their phone and forget about it. It's annoying (I've been there too many times to count), but it happens. Maybe you should try calling her rather than texting all the time. More direct and to the point - you'll definitely get an answer out of her too.

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    Originally Posted by badhabits
    It sounds like she doesn't care about you.

    Agreed. Talk to her, but she sounds more into herself, then anybody.

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