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    Bronze Member Hikapo's Avatar
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    LOL.

    That is the highest form of compliment a guy can ever give you. Getting erections every time. Be proud.

    The touching is a little excessive though like most posters here have said.

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    lol. Of course he's going to get an erection when touching you like that. Long hugs, dancing... If he DIDN'T get an erection, then there may be a problem...

    otherwise, it sounds like he is either sometimes too affectionate or your attraction to him is waning.

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    Well, some guys really are major horn balls. Are you his first girlfriend?

    It's a lot more common than you think though, so don't worry about it...

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    ...see, you insist on separating the sweet and romantic from the sex and sensation...and for some of us guys, it all goes together naturally...the closest we feel to you is when we're cradling a boob or meshed up next to you...And yes, we want you. All of you. All the time. That erection is a response to romantic stimuli! Why do you think guys don't like watching romance?? In my case, it's due to the physcial response I get - it turns my on, physcially! Sometimes through the whole friggun film...and a hardon for an hour and a half with no relief is simply unbearable!

    If you don't want us to want you all the time, we understand. There's lots of other girls on this planet for us to look at and fantasize about, as there is also playboy and porn. In time, a little outside recreation and we can easily tamper with our desire for you by surplanting ourmental image of you in our minds with that perfect image of...mmmmm...from the magzine rack. Just let it be known that you don't want us and we'll move on!

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    OP, in honesty I'm not seeing the problem here.

    I'd think this is a good thing and not a negative thing. it seems like his sex drive is high, and he finds you attractive.

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    Oh don't worry, in a few years he will get bored of you and you would be wondering why he doesn't do that anymore.

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    Originally Posted by bingedrinking
    Oh don't worry, in a few years he will get bored of you and you would be wondering why he doesn't do that anymore.
    LMAO I choked when I read this.
    What bingdrinking said is most probably true I'm afraid.

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    [QUOTE=typsygypsy;3719671]Hi.
    My boyfriend and I are both 27. We've been together for 8 months. I know he loves me and is very attracted to me, but I'm wondering if he is the one with a problem or am I.
    When we give a long hug, he gets an erection. He also likes to touch OFTEN. He'll just grab my breast randomly or place his hand between my legs. I know we're a couple but there's a part of me that feels like it's too much.
    Please help me!



    He sounds very sexual.
    there is nothing wrong with that and it's normal for a new couple to become highly arounsed just from a hug.
    however if you are uncomfortable with him grabbing your crotch / breasts ramdomly (especially in public places), you need to tell him. you need to be clear about that. tell him how you feel and set limits about his behavior, but don't worry about his erections, they're natural.

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    Originally Posted by Hikapo
    LOL.

    That is the highest form of compliment a guy can ever give you. Getting erections every time. Be proud.

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    woa I wouldn't take it that far. sounds like a very chauvinitic point of view to me!

    (nothing wrong with the erections, see my post above, but frankly you make it sound like a woman's highest acheivement is to give a guy a hard on. pleeeeeaaaase!!!)

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    I can understand the part about randomly grabbing you up and touching your goods out of the blue; I get how that can make a woman feel uncomfortable, like you're just a piece of meat out in the wilderness.

    As far as "that" is concerned.... at least it still works. Obviously he really has it in for you and is highly attracted to you. Do you know how many women out there in the world would kill to have their S/O get one of those just from a hug? You better enjoy it while you can!

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