Does size really matter?

I was just curious does size really matter? I heard hundreds of females saying that size does matter. I for one does not believe that it does. Why do females like a well endowed guy anyways? I think that it is absolutely stupid that they think that. What about all of those guys out there that not so large? How the hell do u think they feel about females thinking that. I mean c'mon it's not the size of the pen that matters, it is how u write with it.

Personally I agree with you that size does not matter up to a certain point...

What I mean by this is the fact that there are men that are well endowed and they have no idea how to use what they have. I have heard this from a lot of men.

When it comes to my circle of friends and acquaintances that are women I have heard that they have had a better time in bed with men that had smaller penises because they knew exactly how to use them.

Size should matter if your too small, as long as you have a substantial amount so the woman can feel and enjoy it its perfectly fine.

Depends on the women involved. Well endowed could mean a variety of things…

If it’s too small, like below average, you may as well be masturbating with yourself. Unless of course the women doesn’t get off by penetration in itself- but possibly Oral Sex or the Stimulation by circling fingers around their Clit while “penetrating” with what they have sort of thing. It can be worked around, and can always try different positions, but I can’t get off if it’s not deep enough ya know.

Now too big… Like this one guy literally had what I’d call, a porn stars penis when hard. He’d bash it in me and felt okay…but it was too much power for me… He knew how to use it, but it just "hurt" more then pleased.

I liked them well endowed but to a certain point. I don’t need 9” for good sex. I just want right in the middle. 6-7” Is really nice. But I don’t go measuring my guys. If they’re smaller and still able to penetrate and get me off, then more power to em. I don’t sleep with a guy based on his sex…but if he’s able to please me inside and outside the bedroom altogether. –I’m more stimulated if the person I’m with I’m attracted to.

Yeah.....obviously woman can have the last word on this one...but if a vagina is on 3 to 5 inches deep.....i cant see why anything over 5 1/2 to 6 would make a difference. I mean once you hit the back, thats kind of it....right....at least in my expericence it was. So maybe girth is what matters

Girth is what matters.

But you know, don't go looking at porn actors and comparing yourself. A real one you can have is always going to be first choice, and if it's attached to someone you genuinely like... even better.

I slept with a guy last week who had a 3rd arm. It was huge. And it hurt more than anything. The sex was good but some positions (like me on top) really hurt. I figured out his size was about 7.5" (don't ask how I figured out). I would've liked it better if it was abotu an inch or so smaller. But he also was very into pleasing me, so he made sure he listened to what I liked (based on sounds I made and such) and was careful if I let him know it hurt.

I was with a guy whose peen was about 4.5" (I'm guessing). He sucked in bed not b/c he was small but b/c he wouldn't listen to what I liked, took tips on sex from porn, and lasted all of literally 30 seconds.

Another guy was about the same size but he was good in bed b/c he actually cared about what I liked and what pleased me and made sure he lasted at least a few minutes.

That's what really matters: communication and how long you last. I don't need 3-hour long sex, or even 30-min long sex. I just need about 10-15 minutes of actual penetration with a guy who listens to instruction well and I can call it good sex.

Fit is what is important. If a woman is accustomed to having average or larger penises in them and they run accross a guy who is smaller than average, they likely won't be willing to put forth the effort needed for them BOTH to have successful intercourse.

My experience has taught me to move on when I encounter women who are what I consider to be "lazy" lovers since I see no reason to waste either of our times trying to change her modus operandi, and I DEFINITELY can't make my penis any larger than it already is.

If its no bigger than a chip from McDonalds, then yes its likely too small....

We women have preferences too.....same as some men prefer big chests on women.

If its no bigger than a chip from McDonalds, then yes its likely too small....

We women have preferences too.....same as some men prefer big chests on women.

The next time you see one as small as a McDonalds chip, be sure you don't take a picture of it because you will definitely be charged with possessing child porn.

mmmmm mc donalds...

I mean c'mon it's not the size of the pen that matters, it is how u write with it.

I can't imagine writing with this would be much fun:

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Sorry, couldn't resist.

Yeah.....obviously woman can have the last word on this one...but if a vagina is on 3 to 5 inches deep.....i cant see why anything over 5 1/2 to 6 would make a difference. I mean once you hit the back, thats kind of it....right....at least in my expericence it was. So maybe girth is what matters

Google "vagina tents".

Personally I agree with you that size does not matter up to a certain point...

 

What I mean by this is the fact that there are men that are well endowed and they have no idea how to use what they have. I have heard this from a lot of men.

 

When it comes to my circle of friends and acquaintances that are women I have heard that they have had a better time in bed with men that had smaller penises because they knew exactly how to use them.

Wow! That has got to be the most silly "generalization" i've ever heard... Size matters ---- to a point -- but its not the "whole enchilada". You can be bad and big, or good and big. You can be good and ...ah, small, or bad. But, Good-is-Good, my friend.... and Good will always trump bad, regardless of size.

Do i hate women who think/talk that way? Absolutely! Its stupid and from where I stand, an obvious sign of "low altitude experience". It makes good conversation (maybe) for some. Now, am I, or maybe others "making excuses" to compensate for size? Maybe some are. But, my answer is "when you're good, you don't have anything to prove." So, sure, if you want, let the record show -- "they're all bigger than me." I'm just better. And also, consider this: Any women that says "Bigger is better" --- I can show them volumes of case where they don't want --- what they think they want. His Ego, Her (occassional) Pain, place/maneuvering awkwardness, and other "limitations" are just a few examples....

I would describe myself as "average". I've been described by others as everything from "huge" to "big" to "average" to "perfect" (that's my fav). ...em, I don't think i got any "small", but I've at least got one: "I've had bigger"... Yuk.

Anywho, I seem to think Avg is likely best... like 0+ for blood. I know it gives you better 'agility' and reduces the odds of a mishap (or you causing "problems" with quick moves in semi-finite spaces). Listen, if you can rings all the bells, and 'move about the field-and play several positions', "your size" (provided avg or even a bit less than) is really NOT going to be "the topic" of the conversation. Trust me.

If it’s too small, like below average, you may as well be masturbating with yourself.

O.... come on. Like masturbating?

I'm highly doubting that.

Nope, mimori is right...

Nope, mimori is right...

It may well be true in her case. Perhaps having intercourse with her wouldn't be ANY guy's "optimum experience"?

Below average isn't that small.

That isn't like masturbating.

2 inches might be tho.

It wont matter if you are a good lover tha nows how to seduce a woman and uses his hands, fingers, voice, tongue when making love.

Sorry, I'm a big dude @ 6'6". You have to be a certain size to qualify for this ride, just like with rollercoasters... "You have to be this tall!"

Anything less than 6" and it doesn't hit my factory reset button. No prejudice or anything, just can't hit the happy, ya know?

I dont think that anything is wrong with having a preference when it comes to the desirable size of the male member. Whoever has a preference for larger men is going to exclude potential partners just because of their penis size and apparently they are okay with doing that. It is their choice to make.

Sorry, I'm a big dude @ 6'6". You have to be a certain size to qualify for this ride, just like with rollercoasters... "You have to be this tall!"

 

Anything less than 6" and it doesn't hit my factory reset button. No prejudice or anything, just can't hit the happy, ya know?

When I first saw your name as the last post when I entered this part of the forum, all I could think about was "bad visual".

Yea......you didn't disappoint.

Ha this thread has a one-star rating. I wonder why!

When I first saw your name as the last post when I entered this part of the forum, all I could think about was "bad visual".

 

 

Yea......you didn't disappoint.

 

I'll take a bad visual over bad sex any day!

1/2 the men on the planet are under-average but does that mean half the women are not satisfied? Hell no!

1/2 the men on the planet are under-average but does that mean half the women are not satisfied? Hell no!

the only women who would not be satisfied with half of those men are then women who have a preference for men with average or above average penis sizes