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    Originally Posted by Diddy323
    I would post here with what I want to say to her, but I don't think I would get 3 or 4 words in before I broke the "watch your language" barrier.
    Totally understandable. That's how I felt when I did it, but the thread had accumulated some 170 pages over 2 years so I figured someone in there somewhere destroyed the language barrier beyond recognition...so why not me?

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    Swearing, vulgarities, and profanities are not permitted. This includes manipulating the words using special characters or spacing out the letters to try to defeat the forum censor software. Forum software will replace profanities with red asterisks like this ***. This will indicate that you have posted profanity in violation of the rules.

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    [QUOTE=DN;3697932]

    Yes DN I realize that it is a rule. That doesn't really clarify why it is a rule.

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    DN: Thank you for providing an end to that dilemma. Now we can all safely vent what we would love to scream into our exes faces while still abiding by the guidelines set in place.

    Diddy323: The "why" isn't really considered relevant, because we're going to have to abide by it regardless. Not to say you don't have a right to ask why.

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    Originally Posted by Diddy323
    Yes DN I realize that it is a rule. That doesn't really clarify why it is a rule.
    Because the forum owner believes that people can express themselves without recourse to obscenities that would change the forum into something he doesn't want it to be.
    Last edited by DN; 09-10-2009 at 01:24 PM. Reason: typo

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    Dear Ex:

    I was sad at first, but now I've realized that you weren't really that good for me anyway! You were totally oblivious to your emotions. Emotionally unavailable. You only cared about yourself, and sucked horribly at communicating. You never made me feel wanted most of the time, and sometimes I felt like a bother. You never "took charge". If I wanted to hang out with you, I had to ask most of the time. Maybe you were deep-down, such a user. I wish you could have been honest with me if you just weren't "that into me." Actually, now that I think about it, you were a big jerk who I cared for. I'm embarrassed that I subjected myself to it and your standards. Now that you've been gone, I feel like I can breathe again. No more wondering and worrying and what if's. Something that I never wanted turned out to be FREEDOM and the best thing for me! I never got to say it..but you are a jerk who isn't in tune with your emotions! Thank you for making that big decision to go another route because I'm finding out just how amazing it feels to not wonder why my boyfriend (wait, were you even my boyfriend? You sure made it feel that way) didn't want to hang out with me more or be more loving. Good luck with your next victim - I truly hope you don't treat her as poorly as you did me! I hope you that you realized that I did nothing but care and always would have been happy to give you the world. Good riddance! Adios!

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    My feelings exactly. Good riddance a******!

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    Dear Ex,

    After all that has happened - why do I still pine for you? Why do I still love you? Why do I feel guilt? Do I want what I can't have? Do I realise the mistakes I made and what what we had? Have the last 5 years been built on a lie, that you never really loved me and used me as a stepping stone to something 'better'? Why do I now feel shattered and incapable of getting out to find someone new? Why do I not want to, for fear of finding new happiness and perhaps realising that you weren't 'the one'? Are you poison? How could you have so little respect for what we had? Was the 'rebound' on the scene before? Has this breakup been a partial lie?

    So many unanswered and unanswerable questions which I feel there's no point in asking. What I do know is, your decision to break up is for the best, in that you have taught me in hindsight from us how to cherish another person, shown me how to move my life forwards and become a man. You have taught me so much and made me the person I am today. You are my first love. You have shown me how much you really mean and that you are the best thing that's ever happened to me.

    I also know this - no matter how much I want you back, how much I want to pry you from T*** arms, no matter how much I wish I could turn back the clock, I could never make an approach to win you back. I would never stand in the way of your happiness. If it came of your own accord, then I would know that what we had was worth saving. If not, then I know and take comfort in the fact that no-one can ever take away what we had, and that we will be a part of each other until the day we die.

    I love you,

    Caveman

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    "How could you have so little respect for what we had?" If I could turn back the clock"

    I can definitely relate because if I could just get one more chance I would be able to make her happy knowing what I know now/what I needed to change. If you could turn back the clock and were allowed to make one different move would you use the wish to become rich ( and have access to many women along with others things in life) or would you choose her?

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    If I could turn back the clock AND take what I know now, then yes, I would. Not just saying that. I had the chance to choose between her and two others (both great women) while we were together, and the other two were invisible to me.

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