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What do women think about while masturbating?


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yeah, but like what? Thinking of being closer.... fantasizing what?

 

I think you misunderstood. I meant having such a strong connection that it brings you closer and closer together, mentally, emotionally, physically. The whole enchalada. The sex part is an expression of that strong desire to be closer. What makes it a worthwhile fantasy for me is dreaming of being that connected to someone, not simply having sex.

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Before I met my ex, my mind use to be blank and I'd just focus on feeling. When I was with my ex, I would think of him and pretend it was him. After we broke up, I kept replaying the hottest romp we had before the breakup in my head. However, I realized that was counter-productive to my healing , so I've been trying to just focus on the sensations again.

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yeah, but like what? Thinking of being closer.... fantasizing what?

 

I don't know, a lot of times I'll just replay a previous sexual exprience in my head.

 

I don't know how to describe what I fantasize. I fantasize about foreplay and having sex, what he's saying to me, him touching me, etc. I imagine it's pretty much the same thing a guy would fantasize about, except...I'm fantasizing about a guy.

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I don't know, a lot of times I'll just replay a previous sexual exprience in my head.

 

I don't know how to describe what I fantasize. I fantasize about foreplay and having sex, what he's saying to me, him touching me, etc. I imagine it's pretty much the same thing a guy would fantasize about, except...I'm fantasizing about a guy.

 

roughly, what guys think about, but no offence, i have never though about my partner... not after 3 months of being together.? am i alone in this?

but to me masterbation was thinking of things that reallly really turn you on. after the same thing a couple times need new thoughts. hence porn?

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I actually fantasise a lot about girls...

 

I think about my favourite porn and I pretend I'm the guy giving it to the girl.

 

Is this weird? I am not in any way homosexual. I am not against homosexuality - in fact, at one time I was hoping I was a lesbian - and have been through the whole 'bi-curious' stage in my late teens/early 20's, but I have to accept the fact that I am as straight as straight can be...

 

But of course if I've had really good sex, I would replay that scenario in my head while masturbating... especially the look in his eyes, etc... not JUST the sex part.

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roughly, what guys think about, but no offence, i have never though about my partner... not after 3 months of being together.? am i alone in this?

but to me masterbation was thinking of things that reallly really turn you on. after the same thing a couple times need new thoughts. hence porn?

 

I don't think any guys think about their partners. It's just us girls :sad:

Be thankful you are a guy.

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I don't normally put myself in my fantasies unless I'm thinking about an old boyfriend.

I actually have quite involved fantasies featuring imaginary people with certain physical attributes, a bit like a porn movie in my head. I have several fantasies that I alternate and they always do it for me, usually involving group sex, anal sex or something but nothing too dodgy, lol, perhaps I'm unusual cause I'm not even in them, it's more like being the voyeur.

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I actually fantasise a lot about girls...

 

I think about my favourite porn and I pretend I'm the guy giving it to the girl.

 

Is this weird? I am not in any way homosexual. I am not against homosexuality - in fact, at one time I was hoping I was a lesbian - and have been through the whole 'bi-curious' stage in my late teens/early 20's, but I have to accept the fact that I am as straight as straight can be...

 

But of course if I've had really good sex, I would replay that scenario in my head while masturbating... especially the look in his eyes, etc... not JUST the sex part.

 

Umm ok.

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I think about my husband. I think about some of the best sex we've ever had and some of the special things he's done to me and thats what I fantasize about.

 

interesting; just curious to know why is there a need to masterbate for a married person? please reply, if you dont mind;

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