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    What do women think about while masturbating?

    So what do women really think about while masturbating? I think we all know what the boys think about....

    Would be good to hear from the girls ...

    Cheers

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    Needing to be closer and closer (and closer and closer).

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    Usually fantasize about some guy I find attractive or a past particularly enjoyable sexual experience.

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    I'm mostly in the moment, so I am thinking about my partner

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    yeah, but like what? Thinking of being closer.... fantasizing what?

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    Quote Originally Posted by benga [Register to see the link]
    yeah, but like what? Thinking of being closer.... fantasizing what?
    I think you misunderstood. I meant having such a strong connection that it brings you closer and closer together, mentally, emotionally, physically. The whole enchalada. The sex part is an expression of that strong desire to be closer. What makes it a worthwhile fantasy for me is dreaming of being that connected to someone, not simply having sex.

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    Before I met my ex, my mind use to be blank and I'd just focus on feeling. When I was with my ex, I would think of him and pretend it was him. After we broke up, I kept replaying the hottest romp we had before the breakup in my head. However, I realized that was counter-productive to my healing , so I've been trying to just focus on the sensations again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by benga [Register to see the link]
    yeah, but like what? Thinking of being closer.... fantasizing what?
    I don't know, a lot of times I'll just replay a previous sexual exprience in my head.

    I don't know how to describe what I fantasize. I fantasize about foreplay and having sex, what he's saying to me, him touching me, etc. I imagine it's pretty much the same thing a guy would fantasize about, except...I'm fantasizing about a guy.

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    I think about my husband. I think about some of the best sex we've ever had and some of the special things he's done to me and thats what I fantasize about.

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    Fantasies for sure During sex and masturbation.
    (Fantasies are generally things that turn me on for whatever reason but I wouldn't necessarily ever do - that's why they feel naughtier/hotter.)

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