Emotional Connection in Relationships - What is it and how to do it?

In all my relationships I have noticed that I have not made an emotional connection. I am playful, I listen attentively, I do sweet things but when it comes to expressing emotions - i just cant. i never say i love you (or say it once in a lifetime) but i do try to show it by being thoughtful. is that not enough?

i guess what i'm trying to ask is how can i make an emotional connection with a GF without getting all heavy & mushy?

Do you feel like you've ever been in love with any of your GF's?

Or, do you feel it's more that you can't open yourself up that much...or let anyone else in?

In all my relationships I have noticed that I have not made an emotional connection. I am playful, I listen attentively, I do sweet things but when it comes to expressing emotions - i just cant. i never say i love you (or say it once in a lifetime) but i do try to show it by being thoughtful. is that not enough?

 

i guess what i'm trying to ask is how can i make an emotional connection with a GF without getting all heavy & mushy?

Learn how to be comfortable with your emotions.