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    Why do girls like sex?

    I was taught that girls didn't like sex and just put up with it to please her man.

    The advice columnist Dear Abbey had a lady write to her saying she pretented to like sex for the sake of the marriage but ddin't really care about it.

    This stereotype is imprinted on my brain.

    My wife gets sore very quickly (under 10 minutes despite lubrication - don't worry it's not a medical issue, that's just the way she is) and and there's a time bomb going off in the back of my mind whenever we make love that her ""pleasure"" could turn to ""pain"" at any second...

    So why do girls like sex??

    It's common knowledge that 95% of women physically *can't* orgasm form intercourse alone, plus the V has no nerve endings for pleasure just inside the walls. So after she's had her orgasm (from cunniligus and, of course, nothing inside her) while I'm on top trying to finish, I'm thinking 1) hurry up or she's gong to get sore!, 2) she'll NEVER orgasm because she doesn't like anything in her when she comes anyways, and 3) she can't even feel anything past a half inch inside anyway, and that's EXACTLY what DOES feel the best for me.

    She can't even feel what feels best for me!!

    Girls: It's a secret that sex is just a game, isn't it? I read in those romance novels all about the big hunky guy, all the romance and mystery, all the pent-up horny emotion..then when the story get's to the good stuff, what the novel has been relentless leading up to, the actual intercourse, it all gets vague...very vague...because the best part for a girl -was- the chasing and candles and the cuddling. Sex is the bother they have to put up with to get the guy they want based on primitive instincts of getting a good provider who will protect her when she's pregnant.

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    I love sex.

    It makes me feel complete. The dirtier, the better...

    You really need to talk to your wife about this. You are badly misinformed about the wonders of sex for women.

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    I've never had an orgasm from sex, but I'd still have it for breakfast, lunch, and dinner if I could find a man that could keep up. It feels good. If done right, it feels amaaazing. It's not just an act to please a man--not for me anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by debaser_wolf [Register to see the link]
    I love sex.

    It makes me feel complete. The dirtier, the better...

    You really need to talk to your wife about this. You are badly misinformed about the wonders of sex for women.
    lol you're damn right about that.

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    welcome to ena. i think that there is a medical issue with your wife, perhaps vaginismus if she is experiencing pain with sex.

    of course girls love sex. me and all my girlfriends love it, lol. it's fun, it's bonding, it feels good. sex doesn't just have to equal intercourse, it includes oral, manual genital stimulation, etc. i think that the days of women being told to lie there motionless and take it are gone. most of the women i know want sex as much as, or even more than their bfs! at least, that's usually been the case with me!

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    90% of all statistics are made up on the spot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Grrr [Register to see the link]
    90% of all statistics are made up on the spot.
    lol.

    oh dear lord. i had an ex-bf who was so amazing at oral sex. in like 3 minutes, i would orgasm. it was heaven. i miss that with him. lol. i don't miss him but the oral sex was amazing. sigh.

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    I'm a big fan of sex. I think that's on my Facebook page. lol.

    I think that if your wife is getting sore that quick, there IS a medical problem OR she is making it up. If there's lube, then the soreness should not be happening unless there's something else going on.

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    God do I love sex. Feeling dirty during it, feeling intimate during it, feeling close during it. All the feelings are so intense. There's nothing I'd rather do I think.

    You shoudlnt read into stereotypes. I'm not attracted to hunky beefy fabio types on the front of romance novels, and I think those books are jokes. They aren't realistic to me.

    How often do you communicate with your wife about what you like and what she likes?

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    Quote Originally Posted by annie24 [Register to see the link]
    lol.

    oh dear lord. i had an ex-bf who was so amazing at oral sex. in like 3 minutes, i would orgasm. it was heaven. i miss that with him. lol. i don't miss him but the oral sex was amazing. sigh.
    Um... Any tips for the rest of us? image removed

    And I know what ya mean OP. For some reason it is in my mind that women only have sex because they "have to". I'm not sure why. I guess because you hear all those stories about women not wanting to have sex anymore after they are married. :-/

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