"Crappy" issues during sex

Literally crappy.

so lately i've been taking dumps alot, 2 full solid movements a day (morning/before sleeping).

but my gf likes to have sex around usually when we wake up or before we go to sleep which is when I need to go. I usually try to hold it in, but it's kind of hard to have a good time with her when I'm rocking with crap just waiting to come out. Sometimes I do blow her off and just head to the bathroom, but when I return she's no longer in the mood.

I do get lots and lots of fiber daily (love shredded wheat cereal). I'm wondering if I should stop taking in fiber rich foods? I've tried to take laxatives in the middle of the day to "reset" my schedule (sort of cleansing), but after a couple of days, I return to the usual morning-evening crappings. I've talked with my doctor, and he says there's nothing I can do except just continue eating my fiber

I've talked with her sort of, but she's says its fine, infact she's glad that I've broken the "bathroom barrier" which I still don't know what it means.

has anyone else encountered the same experience? what do I do?

and also, how to handle gas during sex?

ER, why not go to the bathroom before you get into bed at night, then you'd be good to go.

It's a bit unflexible if you're not able to go to the bathroom before you do it, I sometimes need to pee when my bf tries it on, no way would I suffer with a full bladder, so I tell him to just give me a sec, and there's no problem. There's no need to make a big deal out of it.

I might be wrong but doesn't fiber cause you to go to the washroom a lot ? I think so and i would really cut back on it, thats a bumer you gotta go when your girlfriend wants to go for a ride I say cut down on the fiver for a week or so and see what happens.

ER, why not go to the bathroom before you get into bed at night, then you'd be good to go.

 

It's a bit unflexible if you're not able to go to the bathroom before you do it, I sometimes need to pee when my bf tries it on, no way would I suffer with a full bladder, so I tell him to just give me a sec, and there's no problem. There's no need to make a big deal out of it.

well i usually dont have that urge to go, but usually in the middle of sex, i feel the need to go, and sometimes it sort of makes my thing soft which is sometimes frustrating for me.

most of the time, it usually happens when i come back from dinner with her and head straight to bed.

I might be wrong but doesn't fiber cause you to go to the washroom a lot ? I think so and i would really cut back on it, thats a bumer you gotta go when your girlfriend wants to go for a ride I say cut down on the fiver for a week or so and see what happens.

yeah, but if i cut down and it works, does that mean I'm not supposed to have 100% daily fiber?

well i usually dont have that urge to go, but usually in the middle of sex, i feel the need to go, and sometimes it sort of makes my thing soft which is sometimes frustrating for me.

most of the time, it usually happens when i come back from dinner with her and head straight to bed.

 

 

 

yeah, but if i cut down and it works, does that mean I'm not supposed to have 100% daily fiber?

Do yu take food that are loaded with fiber ? cause i'm 20 and i know that alot of foods that i eat have small amounts of fiber and that helps me out threw the day. I aint to big on the 100% i think thats way to much now that i think about it i remember when i was younger i ate load and loads of fiber and it made me run to the washroom.

If your gonan have fiber have it in small amounts once a day or maybe every few days, keep in mind a lot of food and drinks have some fiver in them.

Sounds like you just have a regular system. Fiber is healthy for you.

Maybe you can do something in the middle of the day to try getting her in the mood so you can have sex at a less "crappy" time. lol