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Thread: Rape porn, why so much violence?

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    Originally Posted by Mimori
    Most people who “think” of rape as a fantasy don’t want to rape another person. But they want the control that goes a long with it. Just like the people who like to tie/handcuff etc in the bedroom. It’s the control the person has to do what they like to you… tease you, etc.

    While I agree with this. This is NOT what rape porn is like. There's a difference between being teased, being somewhat controlled/being the teaser/somewhat controlling, convincing, etc... AND "dies while being raped" fantasy.

    BIG difference. One is normal while the other is NOT. What you describe is totally normal. Rape porn entitled
    "Banned Porn Video - * * * * * get's killed while having Sex - Rape Hardcore only for ..." Is not.

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    "The guy is perfect. He’s a sweetheart, treats you well, the dream man you always wanted…he supports you, holds an upstanding career, and wants to spend his life with you. But at the same time, he likes to watch Rape porn. And felt comfortable enough to share that fantasy with you. Would you really throw away a great relationship because of one silly fantasy he had? "


    Yup.

    Call me closed-minded. all the power to you. It sounds like you are trying to get me to see your point all the while telling me I am closed minded for not seeing it.

    You're not gonna get anywhere that way. shouldn't you first practice what you preach? Meaning show some open mindedness toward those who have a different opinion than yours, instead of calling them closed minded.

    and hey, maybe I am closed minded regarding this topic, maybe I don't want to open up to the idea of rape porn being cool. I'm just stating what I think. Where did I call someone closed minded? where did anyone against it call those who are for it, "closed minded"? It sound slike the ones getting called "closed minded" are the ones against it.

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    Originally Posted by pinkelephant
    While I agree with this. This is NOT what rape porn is like. There's a difference between being teased, being somewhat controlled/being the teaser/somewhat controlling, convincing, etc... AND "dies while being raped" fantasy.

    BIG difference. One is normal while the other is NOT. What you describe is totally normal. Rape porn entitled
    "Banned Porn Video - * * * * * get's killed while having Sex - Rape Hardcore only for ..." Is not.

    I agree.

    Having your hands tied to the bed posts, the being licked and teased, etc. is NOT the same as this rape porn stuff.

    How can we have a converstaion about something when basic issues are being all mixed up?!?

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    I could care less if you saw my point of view. You’re not trying to see the other options. Heck, you made this topic to complain that people see it as just a fantasy but you don’t.

    I said: it’s alright if you don’t like it. It’s alright if it’s not your cup of tea.

    And I said your closed minded because (read your post) your not trying to see another point of view. Instead you’re trying to twist your words to say that I’m wrong for calling it just a fantasy. When in some cases, that’s all it is.

    At no point did I say I’m calling you closed minded because you have a different opinion. I called you closed minded because you aren’t trying to see another opinion. I do understand your opinion completely, and I SAID that’s it okay if you think that way. But I did mention that some of us can see that it’s possible it’s just a fantasy. Please try and not twist my words, read all the way through a few times if you need to…

    I didn’t say you called someone closed minded. You said yourself:


    “and us who are not are considered by some posters to be "closed minded". I guess if I am not closed minded, I'm considered old fashioned this day in age. I'd rather be old fashioned than accept (or be into) rape porn.”

    Which referred to the other topic… just because you’re against it wouldn’t make you closed minded. But look how you’re presenting yourself. I would be more willing to agree with you if you weren’t trying to twist my words and attack me with them. (Telling me to practice what I preach, when you actually just twisted the context or misunderstood it). Instead of asking me what I meant, you took your interpretation because you didn’t like what I had to say.

    I DO understand that this is your opinion. And that was mine.

    And again, since you didn’t understand the first time. I’m not calling you closed minded for your opinion on rape videos. I am for how you present yourself and how you treat people who disagree with you.

    Edit: I went back and bolded what you took out of context in the first post. =/
    And with that said, I have nothing further to say to you...It'd be a waste of time if you're just going to take things out of context.

    I see no point in your thread if all your looking for was people who agree with you. it's nothing but a complaint.
    Last edited by Mimori; 07-21-2009 at 12:23 PM.

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    "I am for how you present yourself and how you treat people who disagree with you."


    I haven't read your post yet... they are tireing to me for some reason.

    but I caught the couple of last sentences (quote above), and I want to tell you, please let's stick to the topic instead of lecturing each other on how to handle a converstation. It's one of my pet peeves... and keep in mind that I feel a little defensive because several of us who disagree with the stuff got called closed minded more or less directly...

    and also, no matter what you say.... this rape porn stuff (assuming we are not talking about having our hands tied to the bed posts and being teased silly, but rather about the extreme rape films as described by the OP in the "rape porn... red flag" thread)... this rape porn stuff is to me hugely deviant and unhealthy and appaling, and I am not gonna change my mind about that.

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    I hope you reported those Youtube vids.

    Curious as to peoples opinions on woman who have rape fantasies? as, there are many.

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    whoooooaaa!!
    ok skimmed through the post.... I never attacked you.
    There is no need to bold everything and highlight how I attacked you and how I am so closed minded about stuff.
    I hate rape porn and a lecture on my way of posting isn't gonna change that.
    and to have a discussion, you first need to differenciate bewteen basic different things like the being lied up and teased, and that rape porn garbage.
    Otherwise what conversation can be had?


    ETA "you made this topic to complain that people see it as just a fantasy but you don’t."

    no, I never did that. I didn't even use the word "fantasy" in my original post. It sounds like you are throwing all kinds of BS around, yet you say I twist your words.... sad....

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    This thread has run its course.

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