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    Five Negative Qualities about yourself.

    Butterfly~Wrists started a thread on "Five Positive qualities about yourself"
    I'm going to mirror it and substitute it with the word "negative" as we also need to face the negative aspect of ourselves and perhaps have a target to where we still need to improve on.

    I hope you guys can create something from within you to be your 5 top priorities without peeking at what others wrote.

    I'll start first:

    1) Tendency to procrastinate
    2) Not very welcoming to guests
    3) Sometimes a desire to one-up others
    4) Consumed by my hormone when it surges.
    5) Break promise with myself when I make plans to complete something by so and so hour/day/month/year

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    I don't know that I would call them negatives, but apparently others do, so:

    1. Procrastination.
    2. I'm too free-spirited.
    3. I can't cook, nor do I want to learn how to.
    4. I'm very restless.
    5. I'm too open. An open-book. I say whatever I wanna say, and don't really care if it offends anyone.

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    I'm impatient with everyone except children and animals.
    I hate to cook.
    I'm a shopaholic.
    I hate cleaning my house.
    I place my career above just about everything (in my defense I love what I do!)

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    - I can sometimes be too tolerant/patient
    - I worry a lot
    - Can't pass a soccer ball to save my life!
    - I tend to collect lots of stuff that I don't particularly need
    - Can be too open.

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    -Overly dramatic sometimes
    -Shy around strangers
    -I don't always study for exams
    -Codependent
    -Care too much about what others think of me

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    I overanalyze everything...everything!
    I tend to be fairly moody a lot of the time.
    I'm a terrible procrastinator.
    In certain situations I can be a little too impatient.
    I don't adapt well to any kind of change.

    Woo! Feels good to get that off my chest. Now, let the "personal growth" begin. Haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkrobot [Register to see the link]
    Woo! Feels good to get that off my chest. Now, let the "personal growth" begin. Haha.
    You only get those feelings when they've been your hidden secrets for a long time. It hurts me when I posted mine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Creative [Register to see the link]
    You only get those feelings when they've been your hidden secrets for a long time. It hurts me when I posted mine.
    Yes, this is probably true, because I try and ignore those qualities about myself rather than work on them. One of mine did hurt, though, but made me want to change it even more.

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    1.) Kind of overweight.
    2.) Think too far ahead.
    3.) Procrastinate.
    4.) I hate people too much and pretend like I don't.
    5.) I obsess over things that are out of my control.

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    1. Procrastination. Definitely my worst quality.
    2. lack of concern about what others think..not always a good thing.
    3. Being unorganized. Slowly working on this.
    4. I sometimes buy on impulse. Not too often, but when I do es no bueno. Actually, it's not limited to buying things. I just act on impulse sometimes.
    5. The ADD. I can't sit still, I can't concentrate for long, my thoughts are scattered and random, etc.

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