Ask For Advice
Page 1 of 9 1234 ... LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 86

Thread: Five Negative Qualities about yourself.

  1. #1
    Creative

    Join Date
    May 2008
    Posts
    1,014
    Gender
    Male

    Five Negative Qualities about yourself.

    Butterfly~Wrists started a thread on "Five Positive qualities about yourself"
    I'm going to mirror it and substitute it with the word "negative" as we also need to face the negative aspect of ourselves and perhaps have a target to where we still need to improve on.

    I hope you guys can create something from within you to be your 5 top priorities without peeking at what others wrote.

    I'll start first:

    1) Tendency to procrastinate
    2) Not very welcoming to guests
    3) Sometimes a desire to one-up others
    4) Consumed by my hormone when it surges.
    5) Break promise with myself when I make plans to complete something by so and so hour/day/month/year

  2. #2
    Aeryn
    Silver Member Aeryn's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2009
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    462
    Gender
    Female
    I don't know that I would call them negatives, but apparently others do, so:

    1. Procrastination.
    2. I'm too free-spirited.
    3. I can't cook, nor do I want to learn how to.
    4. I'm very restless.
    5. I'm too open. An open-book. I say whatever I wanna say, and don't really care if it offends anyone.

  3. #3
    thejigsup
    Platinum Member thejigsup's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2006
    Location
    Los Angeles, CA
    Age
    60
    Posts
    7,655
    Gender
    Female
    Thanked
    417
    I'm impatient with everyone except children and animals.
    I hate to cook.
    I'm a shopaholic.
    I hate cleaning my house.
    I place my career above just about everything (in my defense I love what I do!)

  4. #4
    ellandroader
    Platinum Member ellandroader's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2009
    Posts
    1,002
    Gender
    Male
    Thanked
    1
    - I can sometimes be too tolerant/patient
    - I worry a lot
    - Can't pass a soccer ball to save my life!
    - I tend to collect lots of stuff that I don't particularly need
    - Can be too open.

  5. #5
    CAgirl
    Gold Member
    Join Date
    Sep 2008
    Location
    SoCal
    Posts
    628
    Gender
    Female
    -Overly dramatic sometimes
    -Shy around strangers
    -I don't always study for exams
    -Codependent
    -Care too much about what others think of me

  6. #6
    pinkrobot
    Platinum Member pinkrobot's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2009
    Location
    where the wild things are
    Age
    31
    Posts
    1,994
    Gender
    Female
    I overanalyze everything...everything!
    I tend to be fairly moody a lot of the time.
    I'm a terrible procrastinator.
    In certain situations I can be a little too impatient.
    I don't adapt well to any kind of change.

    Woo! Feels good to get that off my chest. Now, let the "personal growth" begin. Haha.

  7. #7
    Creative

    Join Date
    May 2008
    Posts
    1,014
    Gender
    Male
    Quote Originally Posted by pinkrobot [Register to see the link]
    Woo! Feels good to get that off my chest. Now, let the "personal growth" begin. Haha.
    You only get those feelings when they've been your hidden secrets for a long time. It hurts me when I posted mine.

  8. #8
    pinkrobot
    Platinum Member pinkrobot's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2009
    Location
    where the wild things are
    Age
    31
    Posts
    1,994
    Gender
    Female
    Quote Originally Posted by Creative [Register to see the link]
    You only get those feelings when they've been your hidden secrets for a long time. It hurts me when I posted mine.
    Yes, this is probably true, because I try and ignore those qualities about myself rather than work on them. One of mine did hurt, though, but made me want to change it even more.

  9. #9
    omfgzwhat
    Bronze Member omfgzwhat's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2009
    Location
    ENNCEE
    Posts
    144
    Gender
    Female
    1.) Kind of overweight.
    2.) Think too far ahead.
    3.) Procrastinate.
    4.) I hate people too much and pretend like I don't.
    5.) I obsess over things that are out of my control.

  10. #10
    veneratio
    Platinum Member veneratio's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2006
    Location
    valley of ashes
    Posts
    1,032
    Gender
    Male
    1. Procrastination. Definitely my worst quality.
    2. lack of concern about what others think..not always a good thing.
    3. Being unorganized. Slowly working on this.
    4. I sometimes buy on impulse. Not too often, but when I do es no bueno. Actually, it's not limited to buying things. I just act on impulse sometimes.
    5. The ADD. I can't sit still, I can't concentrate for long, my thoughts are scattered and random, etc.

  11. 05-26-2009, 01:25 AM

  12. 05-26-2009, 01:33 AM

Page 1 of 9 1234 ... LastLast
Top Threads
I struggle with PMO
For those that don't know what I mean, PMO = porn, masterbation, orgasm I admit to struggling with all of these things both inside and outside
How do I get my thoughts to shut up
I overthink. All. the. time. And it's exhausting. Do anyone have any advice? I constantly overanalyze everything and always assume the worst. I can't
Had a surreal experience today, made me question how life works..
I've started to notice certain patterns in my life. While I think back on my memories, I started realizing that certain events happen at specific
I struggle sitting in lonliness
I feel like I have an internal struggle with being alone. This is a weird place to find myself in because in my most recent relationship, I generally
Extreme Social Withdrawal - Help Needed
I am a 29 year old male. The primary problem I want some advice on is that I am extremely socially withdrawn. When I use the word "extremely" I mean

Expert Advice
Featured Threads
Is he still in love with his EX?
I met this great guy at work (last November), he just got out of a painful breakup (last September) during that time he kept communicating with his
Can't get over girlfriends past
I've been dating this girl for about 5 months and its going great. The only issue is that I can't get over her sexual history. There are several
I dont like my girlfriends new piercing
So my girlfriend went and got nipple piercings knowing that i didnt like them and didnt tell me she was gonna get them. They are a really big turn
What I am to her ?
hey guys I want some counseling .. I met a girl online .. At first she said that she doesn't wanna fall for me and we will be just friends .. I said
I want my family back
Hi, I was dumped on New Years Eve by my ex girlfriend of 8 years whom I have a 6 year old with. We have been arguing for the past few months prior to
Anxious and depressed about being 32 yo and not married
I could really use some kind and encouraging words right now because I wake up every morning to an intense feeling of pain because I am alone. I'm 32
Ex (dumper) delays giving keys back. Why?
First time poster. Been viewing threads somewhat regularly for a few months now and figured I'd get a few opinions. I'll give a little of the
Ask For Advice

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •