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    For the girls, what age did you first have an orgasm?

    They say that many girls can't or don't learn to have orgasms until they are in their 20s. I would think the age a girl first experiences orgasm probably affects what she thinks about sex or her expectations in sexual relationships.

    At what age did you first have an orgasm from masturbating?
    At what age did you first have an orgasm with a partner?
    Did these events change how you looked at sex and relationships?

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    i started having self inflicted orgasms when i was pretty young although i didnt realize thats what they were at the time.

    first orgasm from sex was just this year...im 19

    all i know is that i enjoy sex better when i orgasm but its still alot of fun if i dont.

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    At what age did you first have an orgasm from masturbating?
    - I can't remember. I started masturbating in the crib and for as long as I can remember I have always been able to have one, except I didn't know what it was til I was older.

    At what age did you first have an orgasm with a partner?
    - 19, thru oral sex

    Did these events change how you looked at sex and relationships?
    - I've always thought that sex was a healthy thing and not a dirty disgusting thing to be kept hidden. Sex for pleasure is what makes us human.

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    At what age did you first have an orgasm from masturbating?

    I'm going to say 16 or 17 but i honestly don't remember


    At what age did you first have an orgasm with a partner?
    orgasm from sex-19

    Did these events change how you looked at sex and relationships?
    [yes i did, but in a good way. I never really understood the responsbilities and possible consequences that come with sex until now. I had friends in highschool who said i should just have sex and get it over with so i'm more "experienced" entering college. I never did that though. I enjoy sex because it's with someone i truly love and care about.

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    1st from masturbating? Old. Maybe 19, 20?

    1st with a partner, 21. It doesn't happen all that often though. It's just seems so hard for me to get there.

    Since I already knew what an orgasm was before I had sex I don't think it really changed the way I look at it for me, but it did give me something to look forward to! I guess I was slightly more interested after I knew what I could be having with someone else.

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    I was 16 when I had my first orgasm and that wasnt even through full sex. I remember it well and remember exactly where I was, it was an amazing feeling. I wasn't even sure what it was to begin with! I've had 5 orgasms during sex before, and on average I will always come once, sometimes twice during sex. I seem to orgasm quite easily so I think myself lucky! I put it down to being very sensual and having a good imagination!

    I never masturbated when I was young, I have only started masturbating in my 30's!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Knotty [Register to see the link]
    At what age did you first have an orgasm from masturbating?
    At what age did you first have an orgasm with a partner?
    Did these events change how you looked at sex and relationships?
    I had my first orgasm from masturbating very young...about 11 or 12. With a partner i was about 15 or 16.

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    and no. it had no bearing on sex. why would it?

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    I would like to know who "they" are because everyone seems to reference "them" and how knowlegable "they" are and to date, I don't find that to be the case.

    I've never heard any of the nonsense the OP and "they" stated, and that includes numerous lectures in my psych classes in college.

    Blessed Be,
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    First one from masturbating: oh god, probably 11 or 12.

    First one with a partner: 18.

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