sevenonine Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 Ok, im 18 currently in university, and randomly at a party with me and my whole group of friends, dont ask me how but the topic of double penetration came up. And like almost every girl there admited to fantasizeing about it and such. Like that suprised me, because i wonder like Is my girlfriend wanting to have more than just me? Like im not one personally who would want to encounter a threesome, weither it be 2 girls 1 guy, or 2 guys one girl. i'd feel hurt if my girlfriend wanted that, but like Do alot of girls actually fantasize over it, but in reality don't want to do it? There are things i may occasionally fantasize about it, but i'd never want to do it in reality. Link to comment
laisla Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 i'm one who never fantasizes about threesomes. if your girl just fantasizes, but won't do it in reality, there's no problem right? Link to comment
Binoo Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 Well, if it makes you feel any better, you can do the double penetration without a second man in the bed. Why not just ask her what she's thinking? Link to comment
ScorpiGal83 Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 I fantasize about them the same way I fantasize about screwing brad pitt. I would never actually want to do it in reality! Link to comment
BrunetteBarbie Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 Wanting something..... and fantasizing about something is 2 different things. I have sexual fantasies about things that are hot in my imagination,but if it happen in the real life.... 100% sure I wouldnt like it that much, it wouldnt be as sexy, and definitely I dont want most of my fantasies become true, after all,like the name says... Its a fantasy but I assume you do not even know if your gf fantasizes about it, cuz she didnt mention it, so, rly, calm down and relax.... and dont ask her about it.. Its private, and not something you should ask her about, cuz 1) u are gonna make yourself look weird by asking "do you ever fantasize about having more than 1 c*ck in you?", 2) theres a big chance that all it does is getting u hurt.. and 3) its her privacy, Im sure she doesnt ask you about any specific fantasies. So stop thinking about it and if your relationship is good then dont let so small stuff get you down & worried.. Link to comment
Lecturer Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 I've only occassionally heard of girls fantasizing about more than 1 guy at a time, but extremely rarely about double penetration. FYI, OP, you used the word "like" 5 times in your post inappropriately. People are more likely to give help/advice if they can easily read and understand your post. Sorry to be the grammar police, but this will help here as well as university. Link to comment
kaoticbaby Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 i think it's possible that many of the girls who "admitted" to fantasizing about it, were only doing so because they thought it made them sound "cool" and adventurous. i'm not saying that girls don't fantasize about this ever (though i honestly never have, one penis is good enough for me, ouchh.) but just that i really don't think it's as common as these girls made it seem. if i'm wrong about them, i'm wrong, but i can tell you there's at least one girl out there who doesn't need more than one man in bed (mee) Link to comment
paintedfish Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 Double penetration, to me, seems best left in porn, where I don't ever have to encounter it! It just sounds painful and unpleasant. And that's just the physical aspects. If your girlfriend is committed to you, and you're confident in this, she's probably not thinking about having another guy, with or without you. Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 I do not fantasize about it. Two dongs is one dong too many. Double penetration as in both in the same hole at once? Gross. Not many guys would be comfortable with their penis touching another guy's Link to comment
ScorpiGal83 Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 Double penetration, to me, seems best left in porn, where I don't ever have to encounter it! It just sounds painful and unpleasant. And that's just the physical aspects. If your girlfriend is committed to you, and you're confident in this, she's probably not thinking about having another guy, with or without you. god, yeah... imagine being stretched like that, and the delicate skin in between tearing and being incontinent and whatnot... ugh! Link to comment
Brownstone322 Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 Well, if it makes you feel any better, you can do the double penetration without a second man in the bed. Why not just ask her what she's thinking? Haha, I'm not sure what you're thinking, but my girlfriend and I have done exactly that: My Penis + Vibe = DP She's "different" and uninhibited, I'll be the first to admit that, but she has always enjoyed that form of DP, and we've done it more than once. (And, no, not two in the same hole, as some on this thread have speculated.) Plus, guys .... you can feel that thing vibrating from the inside. Think about it. Link to comment
TrinaF Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 I have had my guy and a vibe at the same time before... i really enjoyed that form of DP, but not sure about 2 real guys LOL Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 I've never fantasized about it. I'd almost feel like I was being abused being sandwiched and pulled and pushed between two guys. It was never appealing to me at all. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 Fantasies are just fantasies...sometimes a woman can fanatasize about double penetration while she is masturbating just like guys will fantasize that they are the ones having sex with the woman in the porn movie. Men fantasize with visuals while women fantasize with their mind. If fantasy doesn't enter the realm of reality there is nothing wrong with it. Link to comment
jsx730 Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 My girlfriend always thought that having a threesome with two guys would make her feel dirty/used/demeaned. Then we tried it (no dp though) and she ended up loving it because the focus was totally on pleasing her. When you get two guys together it's almost like a competition, each guy tries to step it up a notch over the other and it ends up just being really good for the woman haha. When all was said and done she didn't regret a thing. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 My girlfriend always thought that having a threesome with two guys would make her feel dirty/used/demeaned. Then we tried it (no dp though) and she ended up loving it because the focus was totally on pleasing her. When you get two guys together it's almost like a competition, each guy tries to step it up a notch over the other and it ends up just being really good for the woman haha. When all was said and done she didn't regret a thing. you're such a good boyfriend Link to comment
John Bendix Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 When douple penetration is mentioned, is that anal and vaginal insertion at the same time or can one of them be oral? I knew quite a few women who have had the vaginal and oral at the same time fantasy. I have never been involved in the actual act but during intercourse, some liked to imagine that they had another member in front of them to use orally. Link to comment
enchanted771 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I would rather have one guy do both. To each his own, but a threesome is just so raunchy. Thats just me though. My ex from years ago told me about it, and I wish I wouldnt have asked. So, I will never ask anyone again. Some things are just better left unsaid!!! Link to comment
Brownstone322 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 When douple penetration is mentioned, is that anal and vaginal insertion at the same time or can one of them be oral? Well, hmmmmm, there's no official definition, but I'd surmise that oral + vaginal doesn't meet the "classic" definition of "DP." When in doubt, let "porn standards" be your guide. Link to comment
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