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    Someone is trying to break up me and my boyfriend?

    Today I got a myspace message from someone "didn't share her name" and she said that she was trying to warn me about my boyfriend. She said he was totaly hitting on her at a Greek function asking her to hang out more. although nothing happened.

    First off, this is VERY uncharacteristic for my boyfriend. He is very loyal and he would never even give his numeber out to a girl or want to hang out with them one on one. Also, even if he was single that's not something he would say because he's lacking in the flirt department. I would know, I'm his first for everything.

    Well this girl said she knew what fraternity he was in and told me hers and said it was at a greek function. My boyfriend choose his fraternity because they don't drink or party and are very upstanding guys. There has been no greek function envolving multiple frats/sororities. Only his own with meetings that only his can attend.

    Plus, school has been on Spring Break for over a week and we start back tomorrow and I'm JUSt now being told this? seems kind of fishy to me.

    Her mypace has just one picture (looks fake) and she has nothing on her myspace, just 1 friend, and for the URL it's just random numbers.

    My friends think it's just something very bored and jelouse.

    I know my boyfriend, and so do my friends and family, he would never go againt me.

    But what I'm trying to figure out is WHO would do that.

    If a guy was hitting on a girl, do you think he would volunteer information about it or her name? Yet somehow she knew I was his girlfriend and my name.

    I'm kind of freaked out.

    What do you guys think?

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    Yea. Go with your gut. And logic. I'm 99% sure it's fake.

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    So am I.

    It doesn't make since.

    I'm more concerned about WHO This person is and how they got this information about me and him.

    His fraternity information is on Facebook, not on Myspace. So either some girl in his class has a crush on him, or it's someone I know persosnally who is jelouse because I'm always posting pictures of us happy together and saying how much I love him. Someone who I may of trusted with information such as that, but now wants to try to get us to separate.

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    I don't want to sound negative but why would some one go to the trouble of trying to break you guys up? You can't trust some one 100%, he might have done it, you never know.

    I hope that's not the case.

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    If you truly believe its crap, let it go and ignore it.
    She probably wants you to get worked up about it and get you bothered.

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    Is it possible that he was just trying to be friendly and the girl misunderstood him?

    I don't want to be rude but.. spell check?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rose21 [Register to see the link]
    There has been no greek function envolving multiple frats/sororities. Only his own with meetings that only his can attend.

    Her mypace has just one picture (looks fake) and she has nothing on her myspace, just 1 friend, and for the URL it's just random numbers.
    sounds fake, so it probably is fake.

    But what I'm trying to figure out is WHO would do that.
    Yet somehow she knew I was his girlfriend and my name.
    you even shared your myspace pics with people on ENA, i think it's not very hard for someone to get into your myspace and find out you and your bf's name. maybe she does go to school with him, who knows. it's probably just someone random. don't think much about it. it happens to lots of people and it means nothing. just ignore it.

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    There are lots of crazy girls who do go thru all this trouble. Pretty silly but it happens.

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    I know for a fact he didn't do it.

    I've always had trust issues, but my gut says this is totaly bogus and so do my friends and family.

    Why would someone go to the trouble? Because people get jelouse, people get bored.

    I'm a Crimonology major, you have no idea what lengths people would go to in pursuing a crush or to get what they want.

    I had this one friend, who was jelouse of EVERYTHING I had. She went to the trouble of personally breaking up me and my ex best friend, who happened to be a guy. And sabotoging every relationship/friendship I had. Made me an outcast. Why? She's a sociopath. And I know pleanty of others like this. I even know guys like that.

    I'm very weary of society, I don't really trust ANYONE.

    But the facts arn't adding up. I found the picture online, it's a fake. Everything on that myspace is FAKE.

    Why would someone go to the trouble of making a FAKE myspace to break us up? People are crazy.

    I know he would never do it, but if it was an actual girl, with an actual myspace with actual friends, then I may be more likely to believe it.

    But I am not naieve. My major has not made me as such.

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    She probably just wants him. It doesn't really SEEM real. She probably thought, hmm let's have some fun and create a fake myspace and scare his girlfriend.

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